The difficult life for the youth in Iran. Love without sex. Part six.

    The difficult life of youth in Iran. Love without sex? Part seven. In Iran as sex without marriage is verboten and the people try to kill their sex desires, so even in the time they are married, they will have problem with their partners. Many girls after the marriage do not want to have sex with their husbands. This taboo of sex which the people think sex is bad is continuing in maybe Middle Eastern countries.  Many students of mine after their marriage tried to have a life without sex with their partners. And I heard the women told to their husbands if you love me, do not ask for sex. Love me pure and without sex. In the West most girls are trained to enjoy the sex even without marriage. The real story that I write below is one of this situation. The boys and girls generally think the sex is bad and they try to have a relationship without sex. But there is a lot of exception also.

 I wrote this story about one year ago and now I try to edit it. I hope it will help to know about one of problem in Iran.    Love with sex and love without sex or… It is better that we could live with Love and Unity and not with selfishness, sex without love and be useless and indifferent.  In the time that our youth and young people in Iran have a lot of problems; I do not know to write their love stories will be important or useful. Any way that is part of the lives of our youth who are going to lead Iran in future and I hope they will have an advanced county and a modern one.  I sauté also the Iranian young people are trying to have a modern, industrial powerful Iran with a healthy economy without corruption and selfishness.   Many of my friends claim why I write about the difficulties of my other friends, students and the people who I know and they worked with me. And why I do not write about love and beautiful actions, friendship, and passions. You are not the leader of the country, you cannot change the situation and you cannot solve the problems.  You are not even involved in the political situation any more. That is not your business at all. You are a teacher in the college and you must just try to teach as good as you can. Even the friends that I do not know personally have the same idea. Why I write always the problems and I am negative. The life is beautiful and nice, see the other side of the life; the positive side. Like a half full bottle; why I see the empty side, I should also see the full side of the bottle.  

But how can I forget that little fourteen years old girl, who cried and said why my mother should die; I am just fourteen and she was not even thirty five?  May be my problem is that I was not indifferent like a lot of other people; and I had sympathy for the people and tried to help them as far as I could. But this time I will write for you a love story and a real love story.  But I know the people are different and some people may be not like this type of stories and again some people are against this; but I hope they will not be against me. The people have no patient and they cannot wait. They have different ways for beauty and they have other ideas for life.  Any way always some people are not satisfied and they are not happy with what ever happens or what ever I do.  The story of Molla Nasreddin and his donkey and his son may be is a good example. The Molla is called in Turkey Nasrettin hoja. In Iran they call him short Mula.  He was going with his son and the donkey on a way.  The people said, how stupid this father and son are. They have a nice donkey and they go by their feet and walking and the donkey is empty going.  So the Mula get up the donkey, another people said, look the man is riding and the young innocent boy is walking, how selfish and cruel is the man? This time the boy was riding and the Mula was walking, but another group of the people saw them and said how impolite is the boy; he is riding and the poor man is walking.  As you see they could not satisfied all the people.  So we should be prepared that always we will have some people around us who are not satisfied with what we are doing and they are negative about us. Regardless how deep and serious we try to satisfy them they are not happy.  

Homayoun was one of my friends. One day he came to my house and wanted to consult with me about his problem.  I know that you do not joke my problem and you will take it seriously. I know that you are not indifferent and will listen to me. Any way, I think the brain of two people can a problem easier solved ,  than the brain of one person.  Homayoun was sweet boy. He had a round head and a round face. His eyes were black and his skin was dark and their comp lection was beautiful. He speaks nicely also. I remember that he was a good student and get always an A.  His face was nice and his body was fine also. With his MS in engineering, he could marry a nice beautiful girl from good family in Iran. His father was working in a company and that company sends him to other states and other country for business. So mostly ,his father was not in Tehran.  He was living with his mother in a big house with two separate apartments. The house was in the North of Tehran and they rented an apartment to the people they know so they could have some extra money to spend. His mother has BA in fine arts and worked in a company, too.   I think it was one year ago that he finished his military service and was working with his MS degree in a good government company. We thought that Homey has a good future.  They rented the first floor of their house to a friend of his mother with her husband and a daughter. They moved in temporarily until they buy another house. Her daughter was about thirty years old; she was divorced and had a son who was living with his father. Homey told me that she is a beautiful woman with a nice round face and very white color skin. But she is a little bit fat.

 As the other friends of Homey mother told him, she was married as she was twenty.   But they warned Homey that she is a very free women and she is not virgin, so she can practically sleep with any man that she likes. As they said her way is open. And Homey should be careful, because she is a professional woman in a way to trap men. The mother of Homey who was an academic woman and told him, she should look at the woman pure and nice without any sexual desire and love her as a sister. If he does not this; it will be a huge sin.   But the woman who was named Simin had another idea. She was very close to Homey and tried to be friendly to him. She baked cakes for him, delicious food and candy she prepared for him. And through the door between two apartments brought she the food and gifts to him. She was planning to catch this man in her trap of love. She was about thirty years old had finished the high school and about ten years was married. It is clear that she had a lot of experience and Homey did not have so much experience. May be that was the first experience for Homey. She had a lot of women friends and they had gathering and they exchanged their experiences with each other. Especially their shared their sexual experiences with each other. Simin had a lot of sexy movies and cinema equipment and she showed these movies in their parties. Simin also showed these movies to Homey also.  Any way after a while the Homey was in love with Simin and he was preparing himself to marry her. Probably the father and mother of Homey were not agree with this marriage, but Homey was trying even to influence them to be for this marriage.  I saw also Simin, she had a nice round and big and beautiful face with big black eyes, her skin was nice and very white and fine. But her body was not tall, may be something like 165 cm. middle and not tall and a little bit fat. But she was really a hot woman, she knew how can speak with a man and use her legs, breast and other parts of her body to attract the man with whom she was talking. So with this strategy she got the Homey in her net of love. And now the poor Homey wanted to marry this woman, who was more sexy than a passionate and love.  Any way the poor Homey was in her trap of love and was trying to marry her. She told the Homey that she operate all her body after the she born her son. She operated her sexual organ and made them beautiful. 

 They are like real lips and are nice and very sexy and she even showed them to Homey and told him, look how beautiful are them, my pussy is nice; is it not so, like a pussy of a little girl.  Homayoun told me that she showed him a sexy movie in them a beautiful black and very sexy woman was making love with a snow white man. Two different colors, very black like black shinny shoes with a white man like white paper, they made love and the movie showed also their sexual organ.  Black and white people make sex and it was clearer for the people to see their sexual organs You can imagine that a real very black girl make a porno movie with a real white man, so the separation of the colors especially in the sex organs is very obvious and clear.  Or she showed Homey other sexy movies.  Most of them were very hot. He told me in the time that they were watching the movies Simin breath was very fast and hot and she tried to be as closed to me as possible so I could feel her breath in my neck. Homey but tried to control him and stays calm.  Simin pressed her body, her breasts, her legs to his body and with the excuse it is warm she took off all her clothes and her short also.   She was like goodness completely nude and naked.  She pressed her breast to his face and tried also to press one of her legs between the legs of Homey. But the Homey should control himself and be a good boy.  Homey told me that she took off her short, which was very sexy and expensive one and showed that also to Homey, look how beautiful is even my short that keep my pussy in it. Look how nice I operated my pussy for you.  All of them are nice and after the operation which was also very expensive; now they are so nice. Like the lips of a young woman, like my own lips.  Look my white breasts with a red ring and my nipple, are not all of them beautiful?  Yes yea, told Homey and eats his saliva in his mouth.  Homey wanted to get further with her, but the taboo that she gets pregnant, and the difficulties with marriage stopped him.  If his parent are not agree with the marriage, the child will be unlucky and how can we have together a child without marriage, in the Islamic regime of Iran.

  But Homey was a man also and it was difficult to stay calm in the opposite of a beautiful woman who is hot and sexy and almost acts like a professional woman.  But the punishment after sex activities in Iran without marriage is very cruel; they will even kill; if they can prove it.   But now as I hear sex and rape in the Islamic jail is going on and on.  And the employees of government of Iran perform sex activities even homosexual activities in the jail with the prisoners.   Simin was very proud of her body and of her sexual organs. She thought no man can resist against her beauty and against her sexy attitude and performance.  She learned all of these from the sexy movies that she looked over and over.   Simin waited every day in the time that Homey would be at home. Generally at 3, 30 he came from work and she stayed in his way. And she invited him to have a drink with her in her bedroom.   And she brought also nice cooked food for him and nice gift again and again, like a tie a chocolate bar. She performs a nice presenting of food and tea, or drink and with nice plate and nice handkerchiefs. Than she may kisses him, and touched him and took off her clothes and let him see all her nice body naked.  She put the nipple of her breast in her mouths or close to his lips.  And she pressed her breast against his face.  She contacted her body, her legs with his body and tried to make him hot also.  Or put one of her leg between his legs to touch his little man which was now completely alert and big hard and burns the poor Homey in the fire of sex or love.  Homey some how even afraid with such a woman who had husband before and is so sex hungry and he knows that she had a professional equipment to show movies almost like a cinema.  In that time there were no video or DVD, so she used real movie equipments.  Simin took one of the rooms in the first floor which was over 40 square meters.  This room could be a room for a conference and reception of the guests, but as Simin had always a lot of guest and mostly women, and like to show them a real movie, so she took that room as her bed room.  Homey was invited in this gathering, too.  Homey said about twenty women gather together and mostly speak about the sex and see sexy movies. 

  But in the time that Simin and Homey were alone, she knew that the cut of her body is sexy, so she takes off one by one her clothes until she was completely nude. She told Homey in the time that she is naked, she feel freedom?   In addition to all these sexy attraction she performed, she had a note book in which the girls; her friends wrote their first night of their love sex life after their celebration ceremony.  They wrote very exact and in details how they intercourse with their husbands.  Their anxious and his action, that he takes off his and her clothes and kiss the whole body starts from one side and came back in the same point.  They wrote with a nice hand writing and so good that every body can read easily.   Then they describe the little man, that he grows bigger and bigger until it has a nice size and that their pussy get wet and anxious and moves in their body and want to unite with the erected little one.  And sucking each other and biting each other calmly and pressing each other until a lot of movement, the little man pressed in the pussy and after a lot of going in and coming out, it release the semen into the vagina and they get so hot and it was so nice. Than after little minute rest, they start again and this time they know exactly what will happen again and again.  Ten times , twelve times the little man get big and hard and the erection was enough to guide he little Satan into the vagina again and again.  So in Iran they say the first night of the sexual unity is not less that the first day to be a king. It is so important.  They wrote as the little man get bigger and bigger and is ready to go to his nice journey and inside the woman, the vagina is waiting without any patient of that erected hard big little man, which will be guided by the man , their husband in their warm wet pussy.    And again and again after taking it out and pushing it in again first slowly and later faster and aster, the little man spring a lot of warm semen in their hot vagina.   

They could not sleep the whole night and practice this nice action again and again, in the morning they were both so tired that they sleep the whole day.  The poor Homey had promised the mother to do nothing sexually with the daughter of her friend.  But he was willing to marry her, may be more for sex as the woman make him almost creasy with the all these sexual performances.  The power of sex forced Homey to marry her, as without marriage there was no way to have sexual contacts with her.  Homey wanted to be one of the actors in the movie.   It was almost six months that Homey was in her trap of sex or love.  But now Homey thought why a woman like this who can have any may, will he? Has she not other sexual boy friend or lovers?  She speaks the whole nights with the telephones.  Why?  She is not a virgin so she does not afraid to loss her virginity and she is so hot, how can she control herself? She thinks and speaks always about the sex. Something should be wrong with the whole story. I said to be calm and study her a little bit also.  Do not go in her trap blind.   Homey decided to listen to her telephone conversations. May be he can know this sexual bomb better. As now he even has decided to marry her.  So as he knew the way of communication by half taste, or half releasing, he could listen to her conversation without any extra sound.  They used the same telephone lines.  Homey listen to her conversation few times and one day he listen that she speaks with one of her lovers. Homey listen to her long conversations and came to me after that, he was very upset and his face was red and was very angry.  He said, do you know Amir what I heard?   No, I do not know my dear friend, are you still a hot lover?  He said, Simin has sexual relationship with a friend of her father.  The man, who come to see the father and is his friend, had sexual intercourse with his daughter also.  And she told him, that was so good you pushed your big little man in my body. That was so nice, the time that you gave my semen it was so beautiful.

Thank you, thank you very much, you are a real friend. With your hard organ in my soft organ, that is so nice my friend.  The man said with a little bit shy OK, I am your friend and wanted to release you from the sex.   O, please do it again and again. Please, come soon to see my father after you are finished with him , I let my bedroom door open, so you can come softly in and in the morning, before everybody weak up, you can go to your family.  The man said, what I can say to my wife and children.  Say to them you had a business meeting and it takes long and you were tired and slept in your office. Please, come my pussy cannot wait any more, she is making me creasy and idiot.   O I love you big little man, the hard beautiful one, as it going in my body, it is so nice, so hot and so good.  Homey continued she speak hours about this with the man and thanked him again and again for his sexual performance.  I asked him, do you have any documents?  He said. Amir do you believe me or not.  O, Yes I believe you, but other people cannot believe you so easily.  He said next time he will record this. Homey said, can you imagine she shows that she is in love with me and I am trying to marry her, and she is going to sleep with another man in the same day.  But she is a free woman and she is not your fiancée. So let her go.  He said she sleep with the friend of her father, he is married and has children.  Simin also goes to his apartment and stay the whole night there, and in the morning she came back home.  She had no other work and she was some how happy with what ever she does.  

 Homey said, I am happy that I discovered her activities, I wanted to marry her.  I said you have a huge chance as you did not marry such a false woman with a lot of face. A woman that knows only about sex and not even love.  So you are very lucky to know this false woman.  After he record one of her sexual conversation, he asked her what type of woman are you.   You showed so much love to me and in the same day you sleep with other man? What do you call that?  Love?   Simin said you do not understand, I need badly sex and you could not give it to me.  He gave me sex and bought for me what ever I wanted.  I need a man, and you were just a young boy.  You could not even sleep with a woman who gives her body free to you.  You are a little boy and pure boy. I love you differently as I do sex with that man.  He gives me sex and makes my sexual organ happy.  You are a spiritual friend that I could not guide you in the sex area.  But please forgive me, I know I did badly to you, but I could not control my sex organ, they wanted sex. They made me creasy.  You cannot understand it as you are young and not a thirty years old woman, who had a husband before.  Pleas forgive me and do not hate me.  There is a big different between us. You are younger than me , you finished university, I finished just high school.  I offered my body free to you.  I did not want anything from you.  I even did not expect you to marry me. I wanted just to sleep with you. And give my love and sex to you.  But you were so traditional; you wanted first marry me and then have sex with me.  I could not wait.  And I know that our marriage would be very hard and difficult also.  I was burning for sex and you did not give it to me.   Homey I love you very deep and respect you and your attitude. You are a nice boy and a pure lover, I can trust you and give you what ever I have to you to keep for me. For example I trust you to give my son, my daughter if I get later,  or my wealth and my body, I know you have a pure heart and a pure eyes, and you will not misuse them.  But I was not a little girl who afraid to lose her virginity.  I am a woman who had no husband and need badly sex. 

But again I am sorry, but I did not want to play with your love.  Please, do not hate me. I am not a bad woman only I love to have sexual activities. The female organs they want sex from me and they forced me to do. I cannot control myself as you do. You are looking for love and I am looking for sex. We are different and I am almost forced to have sex. It will be very painful for me to have no sex for a long time. I cannot do self sex like many girls do. It is also painful for me and I get nervous.  In this time her big beautiful eyes were wet and she cried bitterly.  Please, let me to kiss you and to huge you.  You are a nice friend. Homey let her to kiss and huge him, but he did not understand why she is so weak and cannot control her sexual organs?  After she kissed and huge deeply Homey, she kissed also his hand and went to her room.  But she was not like before, she feels very guilty for what she did to Homey.  She wrote a letter and asked again for forgiveness and few days after that the man who was a rich merchant bought a house for them and they moved out of Homey house.  The people especially the old people who have may be difficulties in their young time for sex, are ignoring this power in the youth. They may have forgotten how powerful this sex desire was. To separate the girls from the boys or to cover the women will not reduce this desire at all. In opposite, it the boys and girls have more contacts with each other the problem will be less. If we try to kill this power, it will be not healthy any more. It change to love without sex and it will be not good for the family later. Why the brothers love their sisters so much in the Middle East, and why they are so concerned about the lives of their sisters?

 Maybe the sisters do not want so much love from the brothers also. They want to be freer to find a husband.  I remember a girl who was in USA for a long time, told her brother go and find your love, why you are connected to me so much. I have husband and children and have no time for you and for your love. Go away from me, if you have extra money you can give me to me like in the past, so I can buy more bags and shores or clothes.  In the time she needed him, showed that she loves him, but in the USA she learned that he is not important and she does not need him any more.   

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