"I love it, Effat Joon!"
I didn't like the look of Abdooghkhiar, but I accepted a bowl
By Banafsheh Keynoush
March 7, 2002
The Iranian
I spent the summer of 1977 with my grandmother at her house in south Tehran. She
lived in Amiriyeh, at the Moez-ol-Soltan cross road in Koocheh Baqh,. I loved Koocheh
Baqh. I used to play with the kids on the street, get candies from Abbas Agha's store
on the corner, and spend nights counting the stars in the sky from my bed on the
rooftop, praying that summer would never end.
The summer of 1977 was very hot. One day, while I was in the kitchen, my grandmother
announced that we're having "Abdooghkhiar" for lunch. "What's Abdooghkhiar?"
I asked innocently. It turned out to be the simplest, most uncomplicated dish my
grandmother had ever made. "We used to have Abdooghkhiar for lunch every day
in summer when I grew up," said my grandmother.
And then she proceeded by picking up the largest bowl
in the kitchen and filling it with water and yogurt. She then took a big bag of dried
bread that she had saved to give to the namaki, the guy who passed by on the street
everyday to collect dry bread from homes in return for some salt.
To my utter surprise, she threw in the dried bread into the bowl, added some currents,
mint, salt and pepper on the top and mixed the whole thing. Finally, she threw in
lots and lots of ice cubes, and proudly said: "Look! This is what we call Abdooghkhiar!"
She never added khiar - the cucumbers, which I thought Abdooghkhiar would have. "That's
optional," said my grandmother.
We took the large bowl into the balcony and placed it in the middle of the wooden
bed where we sat. My grandmother's twin sister Esmat (whom I called "Emaad"),
their older sister, Nezhat or Maadar Jaan, and her best friend from school, Masi
Joon where all waiting.
I didn't like the look of Abdooghkhiar, but I accepted a bowl. Quietly, I pushed
aside the mushy bread while trying to figure out what to do with the ice cubes that
kept falling into my spoon. My grandmother looked and asked if I didn't like my lunch.
Eager to please her, I took a big mouthful, swallowed a chunk of cold ice, and said,
with wide eyes: "I love it, Effat Joon!"
After lunch, we all took a nap on the beds in the balcony. At around five in the
afternoon, as the sun's heat was dying, Emaad got up. She walked down the stairs
to the garden, took the hose, and showered the flowers, plants, the cherry tree,
and the aging pomegranate tree with fresh water. In the end, she splashed water on
the brick walls of the garden, on the stairs and the balcony, as Massi Joon broomed
the leaves and broken branches away.
I can still smell the touch of water on those bricks
and on the soil in the garden. It smelled like fresh rain in the woods. My grandmother
turned on the samovar in the balcony. Hearing us, her neighbors arrived one by one
after waking up from their long naps in the hot summer afternoon. We were served
tea in the balcony.
I loved the house in Koocheh Baqh. Each day was filled with happy memories. And those
memories have stayed with me to this day. My dream is to return to Tehran, and to
re-purchase the house in Koocheh Baqh so that I can go back to it every summer.
And you know what? I love Abdooghkhiar.
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