Iranian of the Day

hohoho

"the only reason I go out and eat junk is bcaus she makes my self esteem so low."

Then you have a different understanding of the word "self esteem"!

As you said, it's called "SELF" esteem! how can your mom make your SELF esteem so low? isn't you yourself? It's called self esteem for a reason!

nah they invitedm e to live

YOU ALL THINK YOU KNOW ME!!! YOU DONT KNOW ME!!!!!!!!!!!

I am the man from the video!

you must understand, none of her complaints are TRUE, she complains about me not making money, but Ive had a job for 3 yrs and make good $$$$. i only live there bcause we're saving $$$ to move to the big city. but since moving in she is complaining like this 2-3 times a day. so now we are moving to a cheap apartment to save up.she complains im fat but the only reason I go out and eat junk is bcaus she makes my self esteem so low.

also, Im not a loser scumbag like you all think. I am going to be a famous comic book artist one day, and im a musician. u just think im a nothing because im fat and ugly. remember this: My mom made up her mind about who I was a long time ago. I can never change her mind about it. so u only heard her side in the video now u heard MY side.

Charlie's laws

the parents should put a sign on the fridge.......

Either my way OR hit the highway. End of the deal.      Maziar

The best thing.....

 The best thing the parents can do for him is to send him off to the military.He would be a brand new MAN in few years.

Az bass in koonghoshad khamiyazeh kesheed halamo be ham zad, ah.

Welcom to Amerika

Indeed   saaaaaddd

I am  57 years of of age  I know  what  Im  talking about;  I raised 3 and barrried one,  all in  the USA;  This  is  a typical Iranian family;   Trying to make  the ends meet :  It is indeed  too late for  this young man.  However, a good and assertive Persian girlfriend   could  bring him of age;;   He is  a couch potato no doubt; Overweight  and not atheletic  But  mom  is  crazier than all she was nothing  but  a joke rediculing herself.  Please be  a "MOTHER" SHOW  LOVE  for hevan's  sake.  I personally  would  not tolerate her and move out right a way

 If  the  mother  used Farsi rather than Poor English  he  might have listened more seriously

with the exception of the

with the exception of the comments on the final seconds of the video, it was actually a courageous act for this guy to post this video.  to admit that he has no ambitions and living with his parents and has to listen to his mother's advices, whether he likes it or not.  and what does he has to offer at the end?  to call her something baseless and irrelevant: "cancer."  i do think he needs to learn some manners and his mother needs to invest more energy into positive reinforcements. 

however, the video is not as banal or inappropriate that some others may deem.

Azarin Khanoom -His comments, childish as they maybe

This and their parents are the generations first grew up in "Express your feelings" era. 

He may well regret it having on record, bit everybody will know the age of the fellow, and the circumstances. 

All of us have, had or know of people with teenagers. Also, parents that do nothing but nag. Typical Don't do as I do, do as I say. 

Although I didn't like his remarks, I like the subject matter. How do you motivate people, especially the young ones? 

Mamane-Omid

Post high school and poor

I don't think we can judge this as mental illness.

What we see here is a cry for help, he knows it much better than the mum why he is stuck in this situation but there is nothing to motivate him out of his chair.

It happens to many young people from less affluent families, weak school record with low grades, low self esteem and very little prospect in today's financial climate.

Many in his place would run with gangs, do drugs and are never home for the wrong reasons.

What he needs is a helping hand but where is he going to get that from?

Very sorry for the mum, she has to stop telling him and try and seek help form friends and family (not a psychiatrist). 

Very sad, indeed!

I think also that the guy needs to see a mental health specialist...I'd like to flag this whole post jj, because it is so inappropriate of the guy to post it on youtube. He'll regret it for years to come...especially for the rest of his miserable life once his mother has actually passed away...