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Dude... the last thing I'm afraid of is an intellectual conversation with you.  I'm simply pointing out that you don't make any sense.  There was literally no point to your rambling. 

I don't do "scarp" booking but I've seen some nice scrap books in my life.  And I don't know about "intrest" but I do have many interests. 

p.s. I don't blame you for not wanting to continue...:-0

AW

No biggie here, if you don't have the intellectual capacity to understand a logical argument... then no one here thinks any less of you... scarp booking maybe more inline with your intellectual intrest... and that's cool with me too. U can respond to this if you want, but I'm not going to continue this discussion.

farsi

no... i re-read your post and its still the same rambling as before.  you addressed yourself to me and it doesn't make a bit of sense.  if you don't want to express yourself a little more succinctly, then cool... have a nice day...:-)

AW

My point is simple & pretty obvious....

AW

My point is simple & pretty obvious....

farsi

I have no idea what your point to me is. MY point was simply "to each their own".  Our wedding was simple and intimate and exactly what WE wanted.  I wouldn't trade a single thing about it, even if we DID have an unlimited budget.  I wish them all the luck and love in the world and hope that they are as happy as we are.

Fair game!

Wedding is a petty-bourgeoise concept and in the rcent history of mankind has evolved into a vehicle to feed the cravings of the aspiring rich to move (at least temporarily) to higher classes.
Hence, it's natural for those who throw extravagant cceremonies to try to rub it into the face of their peers and people of lower classes to boast their departure from currnt standings ( a sort of like the ones in older Film Farsies). Howevere, once posted in the public domain, it's fair game to be opined on. Otherwise, why else would there be such postings on the net?!

GOTTI and Sadafnaz

What pissed me off is that people are under the impression that people with money are not good people. For all we know the bride and groom could have already spent money on many charitable causes.

But as soon as we see them enjoying their money the way they are, we assume that they are spoiled brat and they should (or would) divorce very soon, because they are spending too much money on their wedding.

Having money and spending it - is not a bad thing. This is all what they have put into our brain that good people are poor people give khoms, zakat, and smell like sweet all the time. Then they must be very nice people and Ba-Khoda.

Believe I am neither rich nor my wedding came close to any perisan wedding. My roommate was my DJ.

The point is that we should stop judging people.

My dear Sadafnaz

Yes, that is what Farsi, and about 4/5 of the world says, so i am not going to single him out. This is what we have become as human race, and this very fact will drag us down, and it already has begun. When seeing and knowing about need and hunger is not enough anymore....
When you can spends tens of thousands for a few hours of fun and have a good night sleep on it, and others....

So basically farsi says that

So basically farsi says that it is not our problem that people are dying with hunger because we are only responsible for our own children. So basically farsi says screw humanity and be as self-centered as possible. I wanna vomit...

my thoughts...

I think this was a very beautiful wedding, I loved it. I might not necessarily have all the stuff they had at their wedding on my wedding but it was the way THEY wanted their wedding to be.(and thanks to GOD they had ways to pay for it)….
NOW,
AMERICAN WIFE: how come if someone serves non-o-piyaz(you can look up he meaning) to guests (who brought their own foldable chairs to sit on, in the backyard of the rented house where the reception takes place) at their wedding, this only shows how much love they have for one another and how meaningful their love, life, future together(100years of course) is and of course this can not be achieved when the bride is iranian since iranian girls according to our friend here NIFKY are $$$ lovers and blood suckers…. but on the other hand if someone (whom I am really hoping could afford all this)wants to spend 10 bags of money on their wedding and do what every their heart desire on their one time in the life wedding night,,,oh,,, don’t even go there…first of all their love is a sham, secondly they are going to end up in divorce,, for sure, I’m giving it 1 year max…They are in fact really insecure(by NIFKY’s suggestion again) and probably the money belongs to some hungry iranian kid in iran and not the groom really.
(Just to let everyone know, I REALLY wanted to have 12 kids, they are cute, lovely, warm and entertaining but I stopped at 2 since I can not afford to have more,, my idea is if 2 people are stupid to have kids they can not afford it is not my problem to feed their kids)

ANONYMOUS23456.. I am 100% with you bro…wink wink I think our friend GOTTI is feeling the J it too…
Also, I love Andy, if I could afford him I would have invited him to my wedding too….
half of it for Chosee and the other half for my love for his songs,,, he hea hea
Ok, who is left,, uh,, my best wishes to the bride and groom, hope you guys hold hands and gaze into each other’s eyes on your 100th anniversary …may this moment last.

My wedding with my husband

My wedding with my husband consisted of him and me and the justice of the peace, a little burrito later on in the local restaurant and we couldn't be any happier. Our friends surprised us with a wedding party when we were visiting them for Christmas, two years later, we had a wedding vows renewal ceremony with the few of our close family in vegas, I don't think we spend total more than 3000 and it was the best and most memorable wedding for me and my husband, the pictures look beautiful and we didn't ask Daddy to pay for anything, we did it all on our own. I think it is terrible to spend so much money in just one day, even if they have so much money to waste, it is still terrible because they could have probably donated the money to malnutritioned kids in Africa or kids in Iran with medical needs, I don't know them but I already hate them for their lifestyle.

Dear Anonymous111

My friend,
I see you boiling with anger. I appreciate your passion. But you need to look at the picture from a responsible point of view. No, Iranian kids WILL NOT GROW UP TO BE A TERRORIST. We have culture, we are civilized. Arabs get to end up that way. Don't let FOXnews get to you, nor try to sound like it.
People need to be responsible with their money. Period. If it was a trouble-free,perfect world, then it would be OK. But with all this misery and need, this is unacceptable.

jealous

how many jealous ppl r here`? : -)

American Wife

I wish there was at least 1 Iranian woman who thinks as beautifullya as you do. But no, sadly they all sadly equate money with love.

I don't get it

what is the obsession with some people to constantly put their private pictures or video's of their familiy in youtube or this site or others. some things in life should be private, low key , family affair. This obsession with putting personal stuff for every one to see is sickening indeed.

I wouldn't begrudge anyone their "special" day

and hope that their's was as meaningful as the day I married the love of my life in a backyard ceremony overlooking the intracoastal waterway as the sun was setting over the Beaufort River... with 50 family members and close friends... food that we prepared mostly ourselves... a beautiful custom design cake from Publix... and champagne for everyone.

It was the most beautiful day of my life and I wouldn't change a single thing.

Always Judging Iranian

Another thing I forgot. As soon as we see an Iranian is doing well and spending money on whatever they wish, we all get mad, angry, jealous as it was Pool-e-Babam.

But if you see the same thing for non-Iranian, you would do so much bah bah va chah chah and ass kissing until cows come home. Let's face we cannot see another Iranian doing well, we love the Akhunds and the rest of AMALEH's in Iran, because we LOVE TO HATE them.

get a life as soon as possible.

Obsessed with sending money

Why all of you are obssessed with sending money to iranian kids in iran? So what? So they grow up to become a basiji, hezbolahi, pasdar, or even the best of them: like Ahmadi-Nejad and other Akhunds? Grow up please.

I am sick of people asking from other people's money for someone else.

If you really feel bad you send your own money, or even better go live amongst them, see how long you last before you lose your mind.

Let's be real

When it comes to an obscene display of wealth no nation does it better than the IRANIANS!

ps - The groom look like an an Andy Garcia stuntman. This was one stunt he is going to live to regret :0))

Nasty

Most of these expensive weddings are done so they can show other people how much money they have.

It's really not about the two of them as much as it is about telling people how much money they have.

You have to be real insecure to have to tell other people how much money you have.

You also have to be very insecure to have to spend so much on your wedding to tell your spouse how much you love them.

Odds are 60% they will be divorced statistically. Most likely both are or one of them at least is very spoiled and it will be hard living with them. Chances of divorce 80%.

pasheemoon meesheh in about 2 years.

The money they gave to Andy they could have donated to a poor Persian family in IRan or gave for the college education of a poor child in Iran.

THey could have bought his CD and listened to his music. But they wanted keh Chosee beeyan and bring that ugly short long haired Any. 

Darandegi O Barazandegi!

Darandegi O Barazandegi! Beautiful Couple, Best wishes to them. Happines and peace to all.

gauche

gauche ....

Bi khod kardan!!

It is a total shame to spend such money, on an event that is supposed to be based on love and not money!! I say this, because hundreds of thousands of their country men and women are in need of a fraction of that money. But noooo...i guess it is not the couples' problem since they don't live their anymore, right?
Or maybe they think it is what the Iranian people who live inside Iran deserve. It is a shame to be this selfish. It is a real shame to think that since it is YOUR money, you get to do WHATEVER you want to do with it.
Shame.

Beautiful Celebration

Wishing you many wonderful years of happiness together! May you share the wonderful closeness and caring of a beautiful marriage ...and all the the joys of a lifetime of LOVE

To the Bride & Groom :)

//www.youtube.com/watch?v=YsgL35RCGcc

Mona

Holy Cow, What a wedding!!!

I think, they spend lots of money to have such a wedding. Andy was there, too!!

Hope the best for them.

P.S. Just do not want to see they spend all this money to get divorce next year!!!