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Sehaty Foreign Exchange


April 13, 2000

Rules of the game

Dear Mr. D, I am so sorry for what has happened to you in our country. The problem of "Nosy relatives" and jealousy in our society, even among Iranian Americans, is too obvious to be ignored. However from what you wrote in your article, I believe the main person to be blamed is "Mr. D":

1) You read an article and went to Iran to get some "Real Iranian girls" who in this case are apparently the virgin ones. I spent most of my life in Iran and I want you to know having a hymen doesn't necessarily mean you are a virgin. As you know we have few different types of sex .

2) The "cat and mouse" game of finding a partner is not something specific to Iran. No matter where you are in this world, when you want to approach a potential partner you need to know the rules of the game. One of the most important rules is that you should control you emotions.

3) Apparently you are not the only person making the most important decision anyone will ever make in his or her life (i.e marriage). Prarents are supposed to be respected and satisfied in this situation but not to be allowed to run the whole show.

4) Like me and a lot of other Iranian guys, you don't have a lot of experience with girls. You have fallen in love with someone you obviously believe is the wrong one with wrong a attitude and you can not get rid of the resulting depression. I hope you learn the rules of the game. Find some friends and carry on with your life.

Faramarz Kaviani


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