December 29, 2001
* Integrating modernity into culture
I think (and hope) that Nima Khoshkish's article was sent from Iran ["Man
zendaani meeshavam, pas hastam"]. If so, it is yet another example
of how far Iranians inside the country have come in the relatively short
historical space of a couple of decades. A distance that many of their compatriots
outside the country have so far failed to traverse as successfully.
It is encouraging that Mr. Nejat-Hosseini's memoirs was published in
Iran. It is even more gratifying to see this particular reaction to it.
It seems to me, from all I read and see about Iran, that Mr. Khoshkish's
dispassionate perspective on the recent past, as expressed through the book
review, is more often than not the norm inside the country. Ironically,
this type of mindset is the unintended consequence of the tumultuous years
under discussion in the memoirs.
For all the mistakes made by various groups of Iranians in the decades
before the revolution, and the years hence, one thing is certain: Iranians
have come closest to integrating modernity into their culture than most
of Iran's neighbouring nations.
A. Shahmolki
* Not a good thing
Just wanted to make a note on the comments by Saeed Ganji ["He's ALL
WE'VE GOT"]. This is not to support any side of the Iranian dilemma
as I can not claim to be too knowledgeable about it, but this is more or
less on the George Bush comment.
The fact is that any nation rallies behind their leaders during the war.
The Iran-Iraq war was one of the main reasons that Khomeini and Saddam both
managed to weather the early storms of their reign of terror. The French
revolution and its ultra right and left groups survived the early years
because of war and you can pretty much flip through history books and find
example after example of this.
In fact, my first immediate reaction to September 11th, other than shock
and disappointment, was that , God, we are now stuck with George W for another
four years and trust me, living outside of US, that is not a good thing!
Thanks
R. Khalili
* Typical reaction
John Mohammadi ["Don't
get left behind"] appears to have two obsessions: Shahriar Zangeneh
and Mohammad Khatami - of the former he is an antagonist and of the latter,
an apologist. I was almost getting totally disappointed with the pace and
direction of the reform movement in Iran that Mohammdi's article came to
the rescue and suddenly brightened the horizon.
Reading his latest comments on Zangeneh's article ["Cannot
win"], I couldn't help but humming Monty Python's "Always
Look at the Bright Side of Life". Now imagine as our two constitutional
experts, sitting in front of their fast computers in the cosy surroundings
of their centrally heated condos, are busy debating the tiny and minute
aspects of an otherwise robust constitution, what the equally dismayed and
dejected people of Iran should feel once they hear the "Good News"
as John Mohammadi (JM) prophesizes: " ... some people would do better
to be a bit more positive, realistic and constructive. Iran is changing
and the future beckons - don't get left behind". So on hearing the
above healing words from JM's concluding paragraph, let' us see what the
typical reaction of "some people", as he puts it, should be :
(don't forget humming the Python's song as a background theme):
- The arrested, tortured and imprisoned student in his Evin cell is already
feeling better, even the faecal particles that he swallowed while his head
was plunged into a cesspool taste like m & m!
- The girl who is still nursing the wounds from the 50 lashes she received
for not observing the veil, is thinking "a bit more positively - as
JM suggest" and looks forward to 50 more the next time she goes out
shopping.
- The couple who are accused of adultery and are about to be stoned,
try to be "realistic" and pretend that this is a story picked
up from the Gospel of "St John" - in this case St. John Mohammadi's
- and JM should intervene with the prophetic words: "Let the one who
has not sinned cast the first stone"!
- The teacher/civil servant who has to take up taxi driving at nights
(among other "appropriate" jobs) to make his income enough to
feed his small family, is being "constructive" and applies for
a part-timer in the local sangaki.
- And finally all the people who have to bribe their way into any government
office, remind themselves of the smiling face of the laughing President
and remember that "Iran is changing and the future beckons". They
pay their bribe with open mind and closed eyes!
They won't get left behind for sure.
Parviz Khashaki
* Society has to evolve first
I have received many letters regarduing my piece, "Don't
get left behind", saying that one or another aspect of the constitution
is legally unchangeable and therefore everything is totally unreformable.
This misses the whole point of the article.
Like I said, no matter what the constitution itself claims, there is
nothing about the constitution that can't be changed or ignored or re-interpretted.
It is just ink on paper, and the enforcement of every provision depends
on human will and interpretations which itself depend on the social/economic/political
practicalities.
Making certain rights conditional on Islam is not necessarily an insurmountable
barrier because one can interpret Islam to mean whatever one wants, and
then actually enforce it to whatever degree one wants. Islam, just as any
other religion, contains self-contradictory views and statements and many
ideas which have changed significantly over time or have simply been ignored
or even entirely made up (such as the institution of the Supreme Jurisconsultant.)
So the interpretation of "Islamic" is quite fluid and flexible.
How well those views are actually enforced are also quite flexible. The
constitution declares Iran to be Islamic and we all know that in practice,
no one has been able to prevent anyone from drinking alcohol or watching
satellite TV and the authorities have all but given up trying to do so,
and will entirely cease in a few years because they discover that certain
"Islamic" idas are just not practical or enforceable.
Secular government/constitutional interpretations FOLLOW when there is
a secular society (and Iran is still far from being a secular society -
under any type of regime.) So, to change the situation in Iran, the society
has to be allowed to evolve first, and the constitutional changes/re-interpretations
will follow because the impractical views will simply not be enforceable
(or enforceable only at a great political price that the system will not
willingly pay.) This changing of Iranian society is happening today and
the pace will increase in the future, and lifting sanctions will speed it
up, but civil war, revolutions etc. will only slow it down.
My comparisons with the US constitution was about form, not content.
The point was that constitutions are open to interpretation depending on
political/economic/social changes. Iran's society is different from the
US and so naturally its laws will take a different form, as it should. After
all, Iran is 90% of one particular religion and naturally this will influence
everything.
Incidentally, many ideas of the US Constitution such as our current version
of separation of church and state which we take for granted are actually
quite recent re-inventions. Some of the original 13 colonies were indeed
secular, but some were entirely based on religion and very intolerant. It
was only 50 years ago when a Jew was legally subject to discrimination in
the US, just as Catholics (and women and Blacks.)
It was only 20 years ago when in certain states and cities, business
were not allowed to open on Sundays, the Christian Sabbath (known as "blue
laws".) When American society evolved, these constitutional/legal interpretations
changed because they became impractical (because of new ECONOMIC realities,
not because of sudden moral awakenings.)
In any case, I hope that my article at least enriched the debate.
Regards,
John Mohammadi
* Revolution was the greatest setback
This is a reply to an article which appeared in March of 2001. The article
was in regards to the role of Reza Pahlavi.
Mr. Pahlavi could be what Iran needs to overcome the oppressive regime
which overthrew the 2500 year old monarchy. The constitutional monarchy
was backed by the clerics in the 1920's when Reza Shah assumed power. They
saw power in the the monarchy as opposed to a true republic.
The clerics were paid by the establishment in Iran to keep quiet and
it was not until the establishment began a strict implementation of a secular
government that the clerics began fomenting revolution. This was done by
Reza Shah by administrative, and judicial code which was not based on Sharia
law. The educational systems were based on secular learning and not Islamic
teaching principles. The White Revolution further eroded the mullahs power
and from the early 1960's the internal struggle was on against Shah Mohammed
Reza Pahlavi.
It is apparent that the Shah and Empress were forward thinkers. Can it
not be reasoned that when the Shah realized the need for separation of church
and state that this was the correct thought. Think back on what the shah
had to struggle with to bring his country into the 20th century. Does one
really think that the coup of 1953 did not have the support of the Iranian
people. Yes, the United States was behind it, but the people wanted it.
There is talk of the wealth of the Pahlavi's. Do not foreign leaders
live in nice homes compared to the common person. the Pahlavi's were no
different. Ashraf Pahlavi was a member of the royal family and hence had
access to the trappings of a royal household. You must remember that she
also had given tremendously to the women's movement and social and child
welfare in Iran. The Pahlavi foundation was funded by the crown estates
which were turned over by Shah Mohammed Reza Pahlavi and the foundation
like others invests in money making endeavors. It funded many philanthropic
endeavors. it was appropriated by the new leaders as was all personal property
of the Pahlavi family and its relatives.
After the revolution, anything that was associated with the Pahlavi's
was eradicated. Think of the hanging judge Khalkhali. He killed many of
the military and in doing so left Iran open to attack by Iraq. They thought
the military was destroyed. Thanks to the Shah the military was strong and
the weapons were there to fight for Iran's freedom. the infrastructure and
weapons were there because of the Shah.
While Khomeini and many opponents were spared by the shah and his government,
the Shah's followers were not. Khomeini did not spare Pakravan. He had him
murdered. Amir Abbas Hoveyda was murdered. The female education minister
was murdered. The revolution lost all credibility at the point if not before.
The Shah and Empress tried to pull the country into the 20th century
very quickly and in doing so disrupted lives. It was a state of flux and
the internal agitators used this to their advantage. When there is all the
talk of corruption, is the corruption not worse now? Who lives in the palaces
and villas of the wealthy. Women have more rights than what they do in other
Islamic/Arab countries. This is due to the Shah. Remember Khomeini requiring
the wearing of the chador. Iran was on it's way to being a great country
and its people as the royal family recognized were great people. They truly
wanted a great Iran and for that reason they cannot be criticized. Iran
needs to really think clearly if the revolution helped them.
The shah was on his way to liberalization and had the mullahs not forced
the issue where could Iran have been in the 22 years since the fall of the
shah. Iran's standard of living was increasing. Now it has fallen back and
it will take a long time to come back. The Royal Family is the way to this
prosperity. Iran and its people need to think if they want to join the new
millennium and not be viewed as a rogue nation.
It is time that the average Iranian get past all the gossip and unproven
facts about the Iranian Royal Family and they need to look at the accomplishments
that came under that rule. Iran is no better than what it was when the Shah
left power. Most countries advance. It is time for a change in Iran. I felt
personally that the Revolution was the greatest setback. The Shah had a
tremendous grasp of the political manifesto. He was very aware of how terrorism
would destroy the Middle East, he was aware how Iran had to be a regional
power. Look to your neighbors and the uncertainty there. It is time for
your government to change.
It is up every iranian to look to see what benefit they received from
the Revolution. The country is in shambles.
Chris Littell
* The Grand Question
Once again, I enjoyed reading the eloquent expression of Ms. Mehrtash's
musings on the issues that are relevant to all the members of the large
community of "hyphenated" Iranians ["Deltangi"].
When I say "eloquent", what I have in mind is the following: When
you read through "Deltangi",
it is as if you yourself wanted to say many of these things, but for whatever
reason you didn't
I don't know. Maybe I should use another word, like "articulate".
One thing that surprises me is Ms. Mehrtash's being free from "ta'assob",
prejudice, and bias, that is so rare in the writings of most fellow Iranians
who write for iranian.com .
Ms. Mehrtash has many valid observations in her writings about the lives,
and in particular the emotional lives (the worries, obsessions, regrets,
etc.), of Iranians who are living outside the geographic boundaries of our
country, Iran.
She writes about the obsessive comparison between "khaarej"
and Iran that has become part of our existence, and the resulted seemingly
eternal confusion thereof. For many immigrants, the task of convincing themselves
that they made the right decision by choosing to leave Iran is a never-ending
struggle. I have seen when two Iranian strangers bump into each other, say,
when standing in line for seeing a Kiarostami movie, how predictably their
small talk leads to the Grand Question of whether living in Iran is better
or the in the U.S.
(Interestingly, however, one thing that never occurs to us is our own
role. We are used to thinking about Iran and the U.S. in passive terms as
if neither we can possibly play a role in improving the situation back home,
nor do we have a responsibility for that. And please let me leave it at
that for time being!)
But here I would like to only comment on one of the sentences of "Deltangi"
that deals with one of my favorite issues, where Ms. Mehrtash writes: "Getting
married, having children, and establishing a strong family unit often get
lost in the pursuit of success."
I'm not sure what she means by "getting lost", but the first
interpretation that comes to mind is that by becoming consumed in pursuing
personal success one won't get a chance to work on one's family life. If
that's what "getting lost" was meant to mean I should say that
the cause of failing to establish a strong family in America goes way beyond
that.
There are many reasons that help marriages of the couples who were meant
at the altar to be parted by death become temporary. I was once amused by
a writer's suggestion that it might even have something to do with Americans'
"disposable culture". Let me paraphrase: "We don't fix things
when they're broken. We throw them away and buy new ones. That has become
so much part of us that we do the same when our marriages don't work. We'd
rather get rid of them and start anew."
But one important reason why half of the marriages in this country end
up in painful separation, in my opinion, is that the attitude that is so
much encouraged in the U.S. cultural atmosphere for an individual's success
in his/her material life, his/her career included, is essentially, that
is, in essence, at odds with the qualities that are necessary for the permanence
of living together of two people.
I sincerely wish this was only MY opinion, because then I could doubt
it more easily. But this opinion is shared by experts as well. Let me quote
only one sentence from a book the reading of which I find necessary for
figuring out the so-called American way: "Given the enormous American
emphasis on independence and self-reliance ... the survival of the family,
with its strong emphasis on interdependence and acceptance, is striking."
[From page 87 of the second edition of "Habits of the Heart",
the result of research by a team of American sociologists.]
In other words, it is not that most people lack the capacity to succeed
both outside and inside home, but that, in slightly exaggerated terms, the
general attitude that is encouraged for individual success is simply incompatible
with the attitude that is necessary for making a successful marriage. It's
only ironic that in a country like America when individualism in its extreme
form is ever-present in their lives, the notion of marriage BASED ON LOVE
is so much advertised in the media, and then they call India the land of
contradictions!
Ataollah Togha
* Do more than write and whine
Some people are never satisfied. No nation, and I mean nation, not government,
has been as generous and as respectfully loving to Afghans as Iranians.
And yet one of our own ["Hadi
Khorsandi"] blames the rest for not doing enough.
Has he forgotten that many Iranians live not much better, if not worse,
than the Afghan guests. Mr. Khorsandi should do more for the poor than write
and whine why the rest don't.
Hashem
* Instead of admitting faults
I read Jahanshah Javid's "Let
him go home" with much interest. Come on man, what was that crap?
To be exact, if left me quite surprised. At the beginning I was thinking
'hey, finally here's someone who has something good to say' but then the
author gets into details, and in my opinion, screws up entirely.
The result of his actions are: "Bad person, bad friend, bad son,
bad brother, bad father, bad lover, bad publisher, bad Iranian, bad American..."
but where does "bad Iranian" fit in? Where does he talk about
the millions of lives he and the likes of him ruined? killed? destroyed?
A country that has gone to complete destruction? Who lost most in this bloody
20 something years that was the result of pure ignorance. Iran or America?
He goes on and on about how his family was so 'american'. But who gives
a damn about that? what does that have to do with anything? he misses the
point entirely and goes on about the car the family drove. WOW, you sure
were cool to drive a Shahin instead of a Paykan. Instead of admitting his
faults, and mistakes he gives us info about his father's religous status.
And in the end, what does religion have to do with it? Yes, religion
is the tool the clergy has been using, but it's not the reason for this
chaos. If those bloody chaps were Jewish, Christian, Budhist, they would
be donig the same thing. we're sorry to tell you Mr.Javid that the rest
of us 'bums' and 'losers' who do believe in god, and didn't have fathers
as sophisticated as yours, never went through and put others through half
of the things you did.
Regards,
Farhad
* Entered a new phase
Dear Mr. Javid:
Thank you for your so very candid auto-critique and biography ["Let
him go home"]. I really enjoyed reading every sentence and watching
your family portraits.
You have entered a new phase of your life as a publisher. The passage
you have traveled through has been dark and difficult but has a bright and
beautiful ending to it. You are by far the most bi-culturized Iranian actively
publishing an on-going concern through thick and thin.
Your payoff comes in a future not too distant from now when Iran opens
up. When there would be a forced amalgamation of all internal and external
energies of young Iranians.
So please keep up the good work. I am anxious to read your upcoming article
about how the mollas annihilated themselves in a rush to grab power.
Please don't be so sensitive to having Reza Pahlavi in Iran. There is
ample space in that country for each and every one of us without any jealousy.
Mokhless,
Moftaki
* Don't stress yourself
It was a fascinating long story for a young man like you ["Let
him go home"]. I like to write something in relation to this after
the holidays. All I can say now is that I like you more than before.
The only suggestion I have now, cosidering your father's heart problem,
perhaps you should take life easier and don't stress yourself to the extent
that you do. If you recall I have expressed this concern before.
With best wishes,
Ali Parsa
* Not about accent
In response to "Got
an accent. So what?" I would like to say that had you thouroughly
read my essay ["Magical
mystery man"], you might have caught onto the fact that I sometimes
tend to use a somewhat satirical tone in my writing. My essay was not about
the man's accent and I am sorry if I offended you in any way although that
is not what I believe I did.
The purpose of the essay I wrote was not really about the gentleman's
ability to speak English without an Iranian accent, it was about the first
person I have seen on Iranian television who seems to realize that Iranian-American
youth think about issues deeper than music videos.
It's nice that we all get to respond to what other people write, I guess
that is the product of the gift of democracy and free speech that America
has given us, but I wish we could appreciate what others are trying to say
rather than just dwell on little insignificant details that lead us astray
from the path we were originally planning on taking.
Thanks for your criticism!
Assal Badrkhani
* Medical diagnosis
Esme Man Dr. Mahyar Etminan Hast. Man motekhasese Saratan Neestam valee
ba beemaree ye sartan ashnayee daram va dar een mored tahghigh meekonam
[""].
Motasefaane, een khanoom Saratane Harem daran. Valee een to ree ke shoma
neveshteen Zood ras hastesh (early stage) va ziad fekr nemeekonam peeshraft
karde. Valee baraye een ke motmaen beshheem loftan be man begeen een ghode
be ghodeye lamphamphy serayat karde yaa na (lymph node invasion). Va ya
detoon bashe ke hatman baraye een ke motmaen basheem een ghode pakhsh nashode
yek CT scan az shekam (Abdominal CT) hatman azashoon bokonan. Man toseeye
meekonam hatman Patholgy (Pathology Slides) agar meetoneen be yek markaz
saratan deegee beeroon az iran yaa agar nemeetooneen dar iran bedaheed ke
motmaen besheen TASHKIS HAMEEN HAST. Agar soal deegaree dareen hatman be
man tamas begereen
Mahyar Etminan PharmD
Kunin-Lunenfeld Applied Research Unit
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
* He gave his name as Goodwin Hojak
I have a daughter who is half Iranian. Can you help me find my her dad?
He was stationed in Norfolk , Virginia, in 1969. He gave his name as Goodwin
Hojak. I do not think he knows about her , I tried to get a message to him.
Can you help me?
Thanks
Donna
* Appreciated & tolerated
I love this web site. People may speak about any subject and different
opinions are appreciated or at least tolerated.
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