پرسیدم خدایا چرا به بشر دو تا کلیه دادی


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پرسیدم خدایا چرا به بشر دو تا کلیه دادی
by Ari Siletz
04-Jan-2011
 

پرسیدم خدایا چرا به بشر دو تا کلیه دادی. وحی اومد که چطور مگه؟ گفتم دوتا احتیاج نداریم، یک کلیه به تنهائی سه برابر هم زیادی ظرفیت تصفیه خون داره. چرا در این دستگاه بدن ولخرجی کردی ولی‌ فکر نکردی یه چشم پشت کله هم ارزون تر در میاد و هم مفید تره، این چه جور الخالق بودن شد؟ گفت باشه، اگر خواستی‌ یک کلیه تو را با چشم پشت کله عوض می‌کنم. گفتم ناقلا میخواهی‌ دخترا جیغ بکشن از من فرار کنن؟  من تورو میشناسم، هیچ کاری را بدون منظور نمیکنی‌. گفت پس بدان که چشم پشت کله نداشتن هم منظوری دارد. گفتم وحی کن، حوصله فکر کردن ندارم. از آسمان صدایی پرسید که که وقتی‌ فلان دوستت گفت، "برو خودم پشتت را دارم،" چه احساسی‌ داشتی؟ دیدم خدا راست میگه، اعتماد به رفیق و همکاری چه حالی‌ داره و چه نیکوست که انسان همه چیز سر خود نیست و گاه باید به دیگران تکیه کند، وگرنه انسانیت، دوستی‌، و حتی عشق مفهومی‌ نمیداشت.

اینقدر از حاضر جوابی‌ المجیب شنگول شدم که اصلا یادم رفت قضیه کلیه را دنبال کنم. تا اخیرا در مقاله‌ای خواندم که یک استاد دانشگاه آمریکایی‌ در کلاس اخلاقیات شاگردانش را در امتحان موظف می‌کند که تصمیم بگیرند که او یکی‌ از کلیه‌های خود را به بیماران هدیه کند یا نه! فکر کردم واجب است که ثواب کاری مغز خود را به این استاد هدیه کند. این چه جور امتحان دادن است که بعد از دو نیمسال دانشگاهی به مرده شور خانه میانجامد؟ باز زنگ زدم رو موبایل الهی، چون  قضیه یاد آوری شده بود. خداوند متعجب شد و گفت خاک تو سرت، حیف اون مخی که من به تو دادم، هنوز خودت حل نکردی که چرا به انسان دو تا کلیه دادم؟  برو از اون استاد اخلاقیات بپرس.

گفتم یا ربّ بیخود هل نشو، معلوم است که اون یکی‌ کلیه را برای بخشیدن به دیگران اهدا نمودی. ولی‌ سوال من آن نیست که تو فکر میکنی‌، ببخشیدا منظور انکار العالمی سرکار نیست، ولی‌ سوال اینست که چرا بعد از این همه درس اخلاق و بحث و سنجش و تعمق دانشجویان رای دادند که استاد هردو کلیه را برای خودش نگه دارد؟

رعد و برقی بر انداخت و گفت، برو خودت حلاجی کن که امروز وحی بی‌ وحی.

...............................................

تصویر  "دست خدا" از تلسکوپ چاندرا، فاصله از زمین ۱۷۰۰۰ سال نوری.


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varjavand

Aynak

by varjavand on

Aynak, I did not write that nor backed it up, it is a quote, and as I said I have no way to prove or disprove it.


Ari Siletz

Thanks Varjavand

by Ari Siletz on

I read your thoughtful article when in first came out. Since you were making comparisons to Iran in your article, it struck me as odd that instead of legalization there wasn't a campaign where clerics touted the savaab of organ donation. Why do people listen to ayatollahs when it comes to signing up for suicide attacks out of compassion for Palestinians, but the same marketing won't work to persuade us to harmlessly donate a kidney to another Iranian. I'm not stating this observation as a political jab at suicide volunteers; it is a serious question I'm putting to psychologists and/or marketers. 

aynak

Re: varjavand

by aynak on

 

Dear Varjavand, you write:

"According to some studies, it seems the Iranian system has led to
elimination of kidney shortage. “If a decade's worth of reports in the
transplant literature are to be believed, only one country in the world
does not suffer from an organ shortage: Iran. Although Iran clearly does
not serve as a model for solving most of the world's problems, its
method for solving its organ shortage is well worth examining."

I think in Iran, if you hit someone with a car and kill that person, all you have to do is to pay.  In this model, everything has a price.   Obviously when a human life is equated with $4000 (men) and $2000 (woman) selling and purchasing kidney is a transaction of much less significance.  

Thanks to Islamic Regime rules over the past 32 years, the act of selling your organ as a means of basic sustenance has become so ordinary that you would write the nonsense as above.    I think in your method, we should look forward to a day when every Iranian can sell a kidney.

Good day.


varjavand

Dear Ari and aynak, This

by varjavand on

Dear Ari and aynak,

This issue of pricing of human organ is not new to this site, below is my comment I made the last time it was on:

It is not easy to express an opinion for or against an issue as multifaceted and as controversial as organ donation. The fact that organ donation is an emotional issue should not preclude us from examining it rationally. I believe the key questions are: 1. Is the US system that prohibits any kind of compensation to the donors efficient? 2. Who are the main beneficiaries of zero-price system? 3. Can we increase the supply of organ by offering some kind of financial compensations to donors thus minimizing the number of people who may die while waiting for organs because of shortage (6000 according to evidence)?

One solution to shortage is to appeal to people’s altruism and invoke the moral values. If people donate a kidney solely for moral gratification, that is fantastic, but what happens if there are not enough altruistic donors. The US experience has indicated that such an approach leads to shortage and needless death of thousands every year while waiting. Alternative solution, as suggested by some observers, is to offer monetary incentives which seems justifiably disgusting and indefensible but raises an interesting question. Why if something is done for free in good, but if it is done for money is repugnant? Financial compensation is not necessarily offered to living donors as it is the case in Iran, it may be designed innovatively to increase the supply of cadaveric organs. If that could be done successfully, then there is no need to humiliate live donors with monetary rewards and take advantage of poor people’s desperation.

We also need to make distinction between donation and allocation. They are two separate issues. Donation, especially under zero-price system, is an admirable act of charity. However, the distribution scheme is subject to misuse and favoritism. And, I believe that is the target of most of our criticism. It is most probable that for-price system may lead to exploitation of the poor and those who can afford to pay, the rich, mainly benefit from the system. Worse yet, under free system all the benefits are reap by doctors, hospitals, and procurement agencies. However, under for-price system at least some benefits are gained by the donors or his/her heirs.  It is usual in the United State for rich people travel to the poor countries to receive organs. That is because of shortage in home country. If the shortage can be alleviated so will the exploitations.

According to some studies, it seems the Iranian system has led to elimination of kidney shortage. “If a decade's worth of reports in the transplant literature are to be believed, only one country in the world does not suffer from an organ shortage: Iran. Although Iran clearly does not serve as a model for solving most of the world's problems, its method for solving its organ shortage is well worth examining. Organ donation is ubiquitous throughout the world, but Iran is the only country that legally permits kidney vending, the sale of one individual's kidney to another suffering from kidney failure” I have no way of proving or disproving what is claimed by this excerpt, just post it for inquisitive comments. Nor I am that naive to claim that the laws of economics that apply to ordinary products will also apply to such an unorthodox object as human organ. However, I believe if dog food was free, you should see lots of hungry dogs!

 


Ari Siletz

LOL, Azadeh!

by Ari Siletz on

Going by Majid's theory, MPD's rival would be eunuch now. 

aynak

Likewise Ari,

by aynak on

 

And I thank you for the exchange.

 


Azadeh Azad

He wished to donate a kidney :-)

by Azadeh Azad on

A salesman walking along the beach found a bottle. When he rubbed it, lo and behold, a genie appeared.

“I will grant you three wishes,” announced the genie. “But since Satan still hates me, for every wish you make, your rival gets the wish as well — only double.”

The salesman thought about this for a while. “For my first wish, I would like ten million dollars,” he announced.

Instantly the genie gave him a Swiss bank account number and assured the man that $10,000,000 had been deposited. “But your rival has just received $20,000,000,” the genie said.

“I’ve always wanted a Ferrari,” the salesman said.

Instantly a Ferrari appeared. “But your rival has just received two Ferrari's,” the genie said. “And what is your last wish?”

“Well,” said the salesman, “I’ve always wanted to donate a kidney for transplant.”


Ari Siletz

Aynak, you state the bottom line here

by Ari Siletz on

"It would be better for me to die and the kidney seller to starve then for the society to deal with yet another fear.  (of course better for society and not us two)."

   The life of 6000 individuals a year is worth 300 million not living in fear(US only). The individual--the hypothetical you in this scenario--add up to a smaller society of their own. Which is why our debate was worth having. Good exchange.


aynak

Re: pragmatism

by aynak on

Ari,   Someone I know got a kidney transplant. I don't know if I were in his shoes, I would do different.   I have the money, and I would love to see a few more morning suns.

My line of justification would go just as you described:  I will give this man a few grand, (may be more than the going rate to feel better about it) and get one of his kidneys.   He needs the money, and I need to live.   There we both profit.  

Great.   Why not turn this to law?  That's where you can call me a hypocrite and I call you immoral.    I do wrong but I am well aware of what I did wrong.  You would treat it as yet another exchange.

Let's follow through:

Now this becomes a comodity.   Just like a car, and just like any comodity, sujbect to theft.

Soon people will talk about good old days, when their balls, eyes, kidenys were safe from those "bad" thieves.   BTW, what prevents one  from buying someone elses kid next, because they have the money, where would you draw the line?   May be I should ask, do you think there should be a line?

Now we live with yet *another* fear.   For the *right* to be able to  buy a spare kidney, I have to fear my eyes never get stolen, and the ability to buy a kid, my kid be subject to theft.   I am sure someone will suggest a new method for protecting against those bad thieves.  But to what do we owe this new fear in our lives?

You see my friend, even if I benefit from this exchange and the kidney seller too (for some definition of benefit) the society will suffer.   It would be better for me to die and the kidney seller to starve then for the society to deal with yet another fear.  (of course better for society and not us two).


Ari Siletz

Aynak, pragmatism

by Ari Siletz on

It is clear to me that you are arguing from a pragmatic posisition, not an idealistic one. You state pragmatically:  

"A society in which everything is for sale, will not stop at --legal-- trade."

 

In the same pragmatic framework I argue:

Body parts are already for sale illegally, despite what governments have been doing to prevent such a market.  The debate is whether the law should tacitly approve the existing money oriented mindset by bringing the trade into a legal framework.

 

The upside is pragmatic: official regulation will set fairer prices, reduce risks and make "the product" more available. 

 

The downside is moral: legalization symbolically admits what we tend to deny about humanity: the demand for compassion is higher than its supply. This is where money comes in to make up the balance.

 

Perhaps rethinking of money as a way to patch our ethical shortcomings will give the Dollar a loftier moral reputation than it has enjoyed so far.  

 


aynak

Ari, rethink your question

by aynak on

We have two eyes.   If someone needs money, and someone needs an eye and has the money, is that an ok exhange in your view?  god/nature gave you two of those as well. no?   my point is, when a person is alive, the  society has to establish a minimum.  If it is not because of moral values, they have to think from pragmatic view:   A society in which everything is for sale, will not stop at --legal-- trade, as beneficial as you may think it may be under some circumstances.

So I am not being idealistic.   We know there is enough food for everyone on this planet.  Then, why should a human be put in a position to sell a body part, to sustain him/heself or his/her family?  The selling aspect is what I have issue with.  

I think your cross over from 'me' as a dead person donating a body part to be helpful,  to 'me' selling a part because I have to to feed myself, without the blink of an eye.   That is horrific.

It seems to me, there is an attempt to replace morality with money here, even though the way you presented it, it is just an extra kidney.  And I was trying to, without  subtlety say that there is more than morality involved. 

In summary:Certain lines, when crossed will come right back and bite us in the ass.   As greedy as humn character is, it needs rules/laws above those basic greed to survive first.


Ari Siletz

Aynak, human character

by Ari Siletz on

Glad to hear you are on the DMV donor list. In California only 26% sign up for it. And there's the rub. Though the issue is one of helping fellow humans, 74% of our motorists think of compassion as a one way street--happy to receive, reluctant to give. So when the question comes up as to who we humans really are, the stats contradict who we would like to be.

 

 

Should our laws be based on proven human character (statistically speaking) or the ideal one? How many do we sacrifice for the sake of upholding an ideal image of ourselves? In the US that figure is 6000 patients every year. To sum it up as a question for khodaa, is it moral to hold ourselves to too high moral standards?

   

aynak

it is the right answer but not sure if it is the correct answer

by aynak on

 

There is no issue with taking organ's from a dead persons body and using it to help somone, in my view.   I am an organ donar in my DMV record.   However, to make this a policy, so that a persons only recourse is to sell an organ to live or feed his family?

Then will they just stop at kidney?  And what stops harvesters from harvesting people, to take whatever part?  

I think the model of MONEY as the ultimate moral arbitrator, is a brankrupt one, although seemingly practical at this juncture without second thought.   Would anyone then be fair game?   Remember, the under class, would not have to stop at only stealing your car or stero, but can also go after your lungs and heart.

One needs not think about morality as merely theoretical, there  is pragmatic aspect to it as well, for those who need the more tangibles to consider the moral aspect.


divaneh

گاهی هم یکی می ده

divaneh


پرسیدم خدا جون تو که همه چیز رو دوتا دوتا میدی پس چرا فقط یک ابولقاسم به آقایون دادی؟ گفت واسۀ این که اگر دو تا داده بودم دنیا از این هم که هست ...ری تر میشد و بیشتر می شاشیدید بهش. 


Faramarz

پرسید چرا جیغ کشیدی؟

Faramarz


گفتم چون تخمم کشیدی!


Ari Siletz

Aynak, that may be the right answer

by Ari Siletz on

There's a push in the US for the Iranian solution: a regulated system of organ purchase. Iran's program was implemented in 1988 and now Iran claims there is no waiting list of kidney patients (but there are also reports of absuse).

Nobel winning economists Becker and Elias have calculated that paying $15000 for a kidney would fairly compensate the US donor and eliminate the US waiting list (originally they had estimated $40,000 but corrected their figure when they had put in too high a risk figure). In Iran the price is $2000 to $4000.  

Singapore has calculated a figure of $36000 in their market. Don't know if the program is in effect yet.

Israel has an interesting proposal for a legal organ market: If you don't sign up to be a donor after your death, you will not receive an organ should you need one in life!

One of the reasons encouraging Iran to opt for a payment system was that rural patients did not have access to dialysis machines. Also, it is a lot less expensive for a national health system to transplant a kidney than to sustain the patient long term with dialysis.


Anahid Hojjati

Dear Ari, thanks for your comment

by Anahid Hojjati on

I believe you are correct. Some people are more accepting of the surgery risks. If that is the case, they may be more open to kidney donation, that is if they are kind, giving people. If not, even though they are more accepting of elective surgery, this acceptance may just be limited to cosmetic surgeries for themselves.


aynak

ok you asked for it

by aynak on

 

8 Countries Where Human Organs Are Harvested (including kidneys)

 

//news.upickreviews.com/8-countries-where-hum...

god:  gave you an extra-kidney so you can feed yourself and the family.


Ari Siletz

Anahid

by Ari Siletz on

Sorry to hear about the medical malpractice on your father. I agree that distrusting doctors (or medical science in general) is one of the stronger reasons we don't donate our spare kidney. Surgery and anesthetics carry a risk. I Wonder, though, if folks who voluntarily opt for surgeries like liposuction are more inclined to donate, as their estimate of the risks of surgery are lower.  

Troneg

بني آدم آعضاي يکديگرند يعني چي‌؟

Troneg


دختره پرسید : بني آدم آعضاي يکديگرند يعني چي‌؟

جواب داد یعنی شما جیگر منی


Anahid Hojjati

Thanks Ari jan for another great blog

by Anahid Hojjati on

Maybe the reason is protection against bad doctors so when they tell you that your kidney has cancer and take it out and it turns out that there was no cancer, you still have one left. This happened two years ago to my dad and it was in one of the best research hospitals in US not in Iran.


Ari Siletz

شمارشی طنز آمیز تر نخوانده بودیم، آقا داریوش.

Ari Siletz


در اضافه:

چرا یک چانه؟ تا حرفت همان شود 

چرا یک قلب؟ تا دو دل‌ نشوی

چرا یک جگر: تا پاره‌های آن از یک پدر باشند.

چرا یک ناف؟ قدر یک مادر  ندانستی، دو تا میطلبی؟

چرا ۳۲ دندان؟ آن قبل از هدفمند کردن یارانه‌ها بود، دیگر نان کافی‌ نداریم.

 


aghadaryoosh

چرا ؟

aghadaryoosh


چرا دو پا؟ برای اینکه بهنگام گریز باید دوی دیگر نیز قرض کنی‌!
چرا دودست؟ برای بر سر و سینه کوفتن در محرم .
چرا دو ممه؟ چون لولو زیاد است .
چرا دو تخم؟   که رهبران راستین بهانه نداشته باشند.
چرا دو چشم؟  برای هیزی چهار تا هم کافی‌ نیست.
چرا دو گوش و یک زبان؟   دو چندان که میگویی بشنو.
چرا ده انگشت پا؟  "ایرج" گوید به زیر کرسی بکار آید.
چرا این همه مو؟  که حد اقل در دورانی از عمر کچل نخوانندت.
و الخ...


Majid

Ari, MPD......

by Majid on

 

 

به ٩ تا شخصیت که نگاه میکنی.......

ردیف بالا: وسطی، ردیف دوّم: اوّلی از سمت راست و ردیف پائین دوتای سمت چپ، تخم مرغهاشون رو هبه کردن به مقام والایِ........لا اله الی الله!!

ببین میذارین آدم ساکت بمونه؟


Ari Siletz

LOL Majid!

by Ari Siletz on

By his avatar, at least 4 of MPD's multiple personalities look like they are nuts. Eliminating the hejab guy, I'm betting the donor is the sad face.

Multiple Personality Disorder

:O)

by Multiple Personality Disorder on

laughing and rolling,,,


Majid

MPD, It's your own fault!

by Majid on

 

 

Cause you donated your fourth one! remeber? 

That's why you're missing one :-)


Multiple Personality Disorder

Why do I have three nuts?

by Multiple Personality Disorder on

That's what I want to know.