Are some of us the victims of Communists, Capitalists, Religionists and Revolutionists, and have to be persecuted?

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Are some of us the victims of Communists, Capitalists, Religionists and Revolutionists, and have to be persecuted?
by Sahameddin Ghiassi
23-Mar-2011
 

Are some of us are the victims of Communists, Capitalists, Religionists and Revolutionists? And should be persecuted?

  That is another letter which shows some problems we the Middle Easter country will  have here. In our countries we respect the foreigners and here they do not do the same. We are for them the camel owners.  The system of the world is destroying our countries as you see and we are under the crazy dictators and in the country or out of it we will have the problems. We are the victim of communists, capitalists and religions or even revolutions. Staling killed a lot of Middle Eastern communists who have gone to Soviet   Union that time. And now we are mostly the physical worker for the West. Because we are not united and we trained just to save ourselves, which is a colonial attitude. We are not trained to help each other and work in a team. Even in the so called free countries, we are not really united and try to not cooperate with each other and we are still joules with each other, the religions do not untie us, but bring us against each other more. We will be persecuted in our countries because we belong to a minority. 

The some Moslems persecute, Bahais and Sufis or other minorities, they kill them, sent out of school or work. They killed  over 30,000 Babi in Iran, because they said the 12th Imam had come. And recently they killed over 200 Bahais. The Bahais do almost the same thing, they ignore or persecute the Moslem if they can, even through their religion policy they should not do. Many people are robbed one time by Moslems, because they think they are Bahai and later by Bahai, because they count them as a Moslem. We are the victims of all these Isms.  Communists, Capitalism or Religionist or even Revolutionists. Like Ghadafi who kills his own people with a trained army, because he think he is revolutionist?  

  

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

    When I met Shahin at 2001, it was love at first sight. He was one of most lovely and polite person I had ever met. We both felt the same way. In fact we thought about getting married right away. I didn’t happen the way we wanted because his wife filed for divorce, but she signed it around one year later. I had been here in a tourist visa, which was renewed for another period. Since we were so in love that , even knowing that my visa would expire before he get his green card, I decided to stay in America and wait for him to get his paperwork done so we could  get married. When he finally got his permanent visa, he had lost his position as a teacher at Oviedo High School and also his contract as a teacher at UCF wasn’t renewed. With all that, it became difficult for us to follow our dream. Despite that, we never give up our plans, except for, maybe, one and a half months due to lack of money. After that, realizing that so may people with less possibility were getting married we decided to do the same. So, on July 27, 2005 we change vows at the Orange County Court. We were very happy. I have always worked full time non stop since I came to this country. At this point Shahin  didn’t have a permanent job, but he had a rental, and we shared our own home with several students. We made our house a home stay. I was the one that take care of keeping the house clean and in good condition, even though I had a full time job.   At end of 2005, Shahin brought another house, a very beautiful house in Narcossee. We thought it to be a great investment, once the prices of the houses were blooming. I think many people did the same. We then move to the new house, which was supposed to be a home stay too. The second house was rented to students, but I was still the one to come time to time to clean it, although Shahin   always thought the students were suppose to clean it, but they never did. So to preserve the property in good shape I kept cleaning it. So, I had a full time job, our home and the students’ house to take care all alone. Shahin has no domestic skill and for these reason I had to do it all by myself. But I got tired of that, and I decide to hire company to clean the students’ house, and I arrange for each one of them pay a little bit, and have someone taking care of the house for them. Shahin  almost went craze because of that, although I had paid the cleaner from my own pocket. I could never understand his reaction.  We almost ended up divorcing because of that. It was a big deal for him. From that day I realize how little he values my effort to keep the business going. He tried to increase the students rent and many of them left. We have known each other for almost 11 years, and I don’t think it fair for me, a hard working person, to keep cleaning and taking care of everything by myself. So every time a house is available and needs to be fixed in order  to rent, we have a fight, because he insist in showing the house completely out of shape.   

The difference between us was these. She came here to marry a rich man, because she thought she is beautiful, so she can get her paperwork and can work here legally and get a better job. Even after she got her paperwork and also green card, she has the same job. My wife and children left me, because I did not make enough money like in Iran and as she was a good friend and I thought we can marry. My entire friend warned me to marry her, because later she will make a lot of difficulties she for you as you do not have a good job. I lost also my job as a full time teacher she told me if we marry, she can get a better job and I can have insurance from her side. In the time that I rented a room for $350 utilities included , that means about 150 to 200 dollars was spending just for utilities, she brought a very fancy company to clean the house. This company charge for one hour cleaning $ 42,50  she said that she will pay the money, but her money was very limited and she had an entry level job and if she pays that type of money , she will not have money to pay her other costs. And I did not make a lot of money to pay the rest of her private costs. The problem is that renting a house is a very stupid, the people think they are paying the costs of the house, but their rent in current situation does not even cover the maintains of house and taxes or insurance. And for this reason many houses are foreclosed or short seller. The people still and damage the house and the house is not a hotel, which should be very tip toped.  Always later as the people left the house, I had to pay a company to clean the house and repair the damages the people did. The insurance company just collect money and they did not pay even for water damages. In American cheating is a business, a company named ground conference told us, they can get ground for us or loan with cheap interest, but we should pay them over 1000 dollars ab front. They brought us in a gathering that many people testify that through this company they got a good income and they are being helped by this company, so we paid and we did got some books from the company and they took the easy money.

 

I had a car which was 6 years old, and she bought a new Toyota and even the car was almost new after three years she asked me to change the car. I was against that, but she did it by herself anyway.  The credit cards companies know that the people lost a lot of money because of deflation and generally they accept a small portion of the balance. We went to mediator together and the attorney asked first seventy present the balance and later he came down to 30%, I showed him that we are robbed and we have negative income, but she agreed with 30%  I have more than 60.000 dollars bad checks that the people do not pay me. The people robbed my house and the insurance company robbed me too, the money that I put as a down payment had gone and the credit companies know all these problem, The cleaning and repair of the house in almost the same as the rent  and we spend the money for the house and the people did not pay us.  As a husband I am responsible for the costs and repair. My car has no AC and is eleven years old and she want a brand new car and she will pay 42.50 for one hour cleaning and she says that I do not have skill?  She will not study and know about Islam or Bahai so in this way she can understand better our cultures, she says, because she is from Brazil she knows better the culture and the life way of West better, with other words she thinks she is from West, but the people here in the USA think that the black people have different cultures and they do not accept them as a real West. Or European.  In the Middle East generally the people after going to bath rooms they wash themselves and in the West they cleaned themselves with the papers, she thinks to clean with the paper is better and to clean with water is dirty work?  The Iranian asked me, is your wife from Africa? I said no, she is from Brazil. The girl does not know that the smoking of cigar is not healthy?

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She is worth some misbehaving ...

by radius-of-the-persian-cat on

Dear Sahameddin Ghiassi,

 Sorry for the slight confusion. It was not so clear that the Brazillian Lady was not your wife.

The way you described her in the text almost prompted me to say "Lucky you, that it was somebody else being involved in this daily fight". But then, when I scroll up again to this amazing picture of her smoking the big cigar I would say: "Damned, this girl would it be worth to have some fight every day about who should clean the flat and who gets a new car".


Sahameddin Ghiassi

Hi Radius

by Sahameddin Ghiassi on

This is not my wife. And the story is not mine.


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She is really smoking a big cigar, but she looks very healthy ..

by radius-of-the-persian-cat on

Hi Sahameddin Ghiassi,

Nice brazilian wife you have found there, congratulations !  If my wife would look like her on this amazing photo, I would pay a thousand bugs to keep her away from any cleaning job.

And by the way, if she enjoys the cigar (which she obviously does), leave her this little vice. It is for sure much less hazardous than smoking cigarets.