Our beloved JJ's recent post named "Boos fest" stirred so many memories that it prompted me to get writing on my blog.
What ever happened to the days of long lingering kisses, both innocent and passionate, new and exciting.... Hearts pounding, butterflies in the stomach, that 'tingly' feeling all over, like you are floating on a cloud. Oh how i miss it.
I once dated this beautiful boy (when i was 16) and we must have spent a whole summer kissing, anywhere and everywhere. The first time we kissed was in a moonlit park near our school, underneath the protective branches of a sheltering tree. Nobody could see us, even in daylight, and as the darkness drew on, we were still kissing.... It will still be the single most innocently romantic night of my life. We kissed for hours and hours and there was an uncontrollable electricity between us.... Like fire. Ironically, that fire burned for 11 years... But WOW! We certainly did alot of kissing.... It was sweet, innocent and so wonderfully carefree.... I miss 'Kissing with abandon' i really do.
To this day, if the kissing is not mind-blowing, i cant get comfortable. I wouldnt go so far as to say that i would stop seeing someone, but kissing is integral for me, good kisses are essential, even. Something happened on the road to adult-hood... something that made life so serious, made relationships so hard, made us forget about kissing and become preoccupied with sex instead. Sex is sex, and im no prude, but kissing??? What ever happened to KISSING????
"And with these lips, so warm and soft, I give myself to thee and so my love, come hold aloft, yours arms that embrace me...
First touch, then taste my moistened mouth, with lips as sweet as wine, these lips, they are but yours my love, and yours they are but mine...
What became of lingering kisses, so treasured in my heart, the memories live in my soul, no matter if we part...
Thine lips so nude and kisses fierce, send shivers down my spine... The first, the last and those between, all equally divine."
'Kiss and Tell' - SG 31/10/07
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So funny!
by Shabnam_Ghayour on Fri Nov 02, 2007 02:26 PM PDTAll your comments made me laugh so much! Thanks for your poem "Mom" and thanks to Tonya for your kind words!!! "Non-Texan"...I guess we all kiss differently!!!
Normally i dont blog, so this was the last one... I shall be sticking to writing about what i know.... Food.... Hopefully we shall all meet again on my next article!!! Thanks for being so sweet! xxx
A KISS A DAY KEEPS THE PLAQUE AWAY!
by non-texan (not verified) on Fri Nov 02, 2007 02:08 PM PDTalright, we're set to go around the kiss objects. Tonya good job heheheehe you changed your name too. we are at Shabnam's internet family room and ready to through in few kiss advice. mochoo gracias para invitarnos Shabnam
btw, Tonya and I got to know each other at this blog,hehehehehe
//iranian.com/main/albums/grumpys
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Try some of the following and I guarantee your date is not going to turn around and look a second time!
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Drooling all over her mouth while kissing. Women don't like wet or sloppy kisses.
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While kissing, you keep your lips stiff and rigid. If they are hard as a rock it will feel like kissing a rock to her.
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Keeping your lips closed. Women don't enjoy kissing just a slit on a guys face.
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Keeping your eyes open. Women are ashamed of sensual boldness.
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Groping around when you kiss. Just don't get too bold. Women don't take to sleazy guys!
Opps...
by Majid on Thu Nov 01, 2007 08:22 PM PDTSorry... I'm logged in under my husbands name..lol. It's Tonya and let me introduce you to Mr. Jokester himself!
Whoo hoo! Welcome Non Texan
by Majid on Thu Nov 01, 2007 08:19 PM PDTLadies... get ready for a giggle or two! Bring it on my friend!
"A kiss can be a comma, a question mark, or an exclamation point. That's basic spelling that every woman ought to know." - Mistinguett
howdy everyone, youhooooooooooooo
by non-texan (not verified) on Thu Nov 01, 2007 06:48 PM PDTdid someone call for a kiss? oh, ya, mosh bokhoratet shabnam khoshgel.hehehehe, I love to kiss, boooooooooooooosss, hey hey hey only girls please! lol. well, I got a friend here and her name is Tonya. hey Tonya, how do you like my new screen name? I paid nothing to change my name hahahahahaha. it's me the holloween guy...kapish?
here comes my kiss stuff youhooooooooooooooo,
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Kissing is a means of getting two people so close together that they can't see anything wrong with each other. by Rene
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A kiss is an invitation for.....hanky panky
by unknown persian
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Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves. by Albert Einstein
To: Shabnam
by Your New Boyfriend (not verified) on Thu Nov 01, 2007 03:27 PM PDTNeed someone to kiss and you have no boyfriend? Look no further.
HERE I AM.
I was born with puckered lips and no worthy targets to direct them at. In fact, I'm even willing to snuggle on command and go to Chick Flicks and discuss them at length over Camamile tea.
Signed: Sleepless in Sanandaj
DOKTOR BOOOOOS!!!
by Anonymous23 (not verified) on Thu Nov 01, 2007 02:45 PM PDTDOKTOR BOOOOOS!!!
to Mom
by Tonya (not verified) on Thu Nov 01, 2007 09:13 AM PDTOk... it's now official. My office thinks I'm losing it. This is the second time I've been sitting calmly and then burst out laughing. I loved your little poem... ain't it the truth. I think the article was sweet and reminiscent of ALL our sweet teenage years. I don't think everything on iranian.com needs to be so dad blasted serious. A little sentimentality is a very good thing. As far as.... well, never mind...its pretty obvious that "drivel" is a relative term...lol. Nuff said. Keep it up Shabnam... you're a fresh and lovely voice. A new mantra??????? Bring back romance... bring back romance!!!!!!!
Shabnam, you go girl
by A Mom (not verified) on Wed Oct 31, 2007 11:26 PM PDTJust to tell you I had a laugh at Caspian Sea Mermaid's comment and your reply. She replied to a comment I posted elsewhere, and her comment to me was about my "inane drivel." It's so weird how some people get so ticked off by online comments from people they don't even know.
"There once was a girl from the sea
who hated all comments from me.
Drivel she named it,
and promptly defamed it,
and hit "post my comment" with glee!"
As for kissing, Shabnam, I personally hated the kisses from guys who thought the more saliva the better. Ugh. But you are right--a good kiss can do wonders. Bring back romance, bring back romance!
Guys remember that first
by lJ (not verified) on Wed Oct 31, 2007 07:30 PM PDTGuys remember that first kiss?
I'd been practicing on the back of my hand for a couple of weeks before my BF went for it... the kiss that is !
I had just turned 16!
Was it really 30 years ago?...... couldn't have been!
well, things change
by Part Time Kisser (not verified) on Wed Oct 31, 2007 06:47 PM PDTyou see, when you are sixteen the hormones are far more active than when you pass 29. So, cherish those days because there is no way that it will happen again.
Kissing after 29 generally is diluted with concerns on false teeth, dental bridges, cavities, oral health, contagious diseases and few other atributes.
Thanks god, as we get older we do not have to sit down and suffer for absence of saliva-filled kisses as life takes different shapes and priorities get rearranged.
So, if you still have the urge and derive to get entangled is some mouth to mouth copulation, then go for it by all means, before you start thinking about other issues....
Caspian...
by Shabnam_Ghayour on Wed Oct 31, 2007 06:31 PM PDTGrow up honey. Is someone forcing you to read my stuff? You clearly seem to hate whatever i write and seem to have the need to leave unecessary comments on my writing. Here's a tip "STOP READING THEM".... !
Problem solved!
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by caspianseamermaid on Fri Sep 10, 2010 06:01 AM PDT.