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I am done with Hardambil

هردمبیل : بی نظم ، بی قاعده ، قاراشمیش ، قر و قاطی  

 There are many good things about this site and what the site owner  has done which are very much appreciated .

but at the same time there are some VERY BASIC PRINCIPALS that are being ignored which are run based on “gut feelings”

The issue with such PERSONAL way of dealing with things is that it is just another form of dictatorship however by a nice dicatator this time!

Historically we have been conditioned to it for so long that we don’t even sense it that we like the “agha bala sar” to decide for us than us having a set of rules that we can decide upon on our own .

As much as the site owner claims to be for freedom etc here, in fact he is the big dictator who decides how to define freedom, for whom, where , on what grounds and when !

Freedom is not a “man dar Avordi” phenomenon that can be offered “hardambil” ! .

Proper environment” that “protects” the RIGHTS of individuals is at the heart of freedom and it is ONLY THEN that the individuals can “freely” and “without fear of harassments” (official or individual kind) can comfortably express themselves.

This so called “nothing is sacred” policy as good it it sounds has been actually used in iranian.com by management to be defined as “nothing is sacred including your individuals rights ”

The terms of use is important to provide the necessary boundaries for everyone to exercise freedom, other than that it is a moderated chaos or at best a ” man dar avordi gut feeling moderation of freedom” !

Issues such as :

– Whatever goes as long as JJ feels is OK
– Nothing goes unless  JJ says so
– Terms of service is just there , never mind it
– Some can register, some don’t have to because they do not feel to be held accountable to even a simple screen name !
–  Some can play multiple faces and some have to deal with it
– some can get away and some don’t get away with harassments 
-Favoristism and special previliges

– If you are a yes man or not  

No ! This is not freedom , this is a typical Irooni man dar avordi system that decides as “we” go along by “one person”

BUT yes this is a business and the owner of business within the boundaries of law has the right to do as he wishes and we have the right to like it, or not like it , contribute or not and finally accept it or not, click on iranian.com or not.

It has been coming for a while …and it has been few days since I have decided to no longer be part of THIS anymore.

Not that neceassrily matter but just FYI : I will post in my own duplicated blog here ,only because of my commitment to some bigger goals, but beyond that I will no longer comment and even on my own blog will only comment and communicate with those who “take responsibility” to AT LEAST post under a registered screen name.

No I am not sking this place to be run MY way  but by a set of common principals known to all of us and based on equal rights

… therefor I am excercising my right to comment in other places where common and proven civilized norms and rules apply …. and not hardambil 

Best in 2009 🙂

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