Life lesson number 63: do not form an openion of the situation from the things you think you see. do not judge a book by its cover. do not get into a fight just because the other guy looks tiny. It was a busy week last week and I have been edgy. so the other day when maryam and me were driving and this guy suddenly crossed the lane and turned in front of me i got really pissed so i too speeded and went in front of him to look at him first. he was a tiny guy with his head just visible from the side window and i could see he was stretching his stupid neck so he could see in front of him. now that i could see the guy is tiny i decided to teach him a lesson in driving and courtessy. so i speeded again and turned in front of his car and came out screaming at him for being so blind and stupid. then his car door opened and he literarly crawled out little by little. by the time all of him was out i realized that i was in deep trouble. I have no idea where he was hiding all seven feet of his body in that car but he was huge and he was ready to kill me and eat me for lunch. when maryam saw my face looking so scared she ran out of car carrying two bars of chocolate and with a big smile she offered the man both the bars and apologized one hundred times. he took the chocolates and crawled back into his car and again nearly disappeard with only his top of head visible from the outside and drove off. I told maryam she should not have apologized and stopped me from killing that bastard. she looked at me and said she did not want to see me on a electric chair for killing a innocent man. she is so cute when she tries to be diplomatic.