October 16, 2006
When I first read Mr Shirazi’s ‘s pussy bashing article,
the Boss", the hardcore feminist-
how dare such a “pedarsokhteh”, chauvinistic sexist son
of a b*** denigrates & objectifies women- person inside of me
wanted to kick him hard in the balls with my 10 inch stilettos!
upon having second thoughts, I came to realize that he had made
some good points, though I have to admit, it took a lot of courage
for me, as a female, to agree with such radical remarks!
being a female, and without attempting to be a traitor to my own
kind, I have to confess that I too, have made similar observations.
As a soon to be admitted lawyer working in a male dominated industry
and being one of only three females working in a commercial litigation
law firm, inevitably, I have spent a lot of time closely observing
the male species and on many occasions I have come this close to
beg those pussy whipped males, to order their bitches to shove
it where the sun don’t shine!
Ok, as an example, picture this.
My boss, being a highly respected, self-assured, egoistic, know-it-all
middle age litigant, is bossed around by this foxy, blond lass
-- AKA the wife -- who thinks she has the right to run the
show for him.
me rephrase that.
“Bossed around” is an underestimate,
he is humiliated in front of his colleagues, reduced to pieces
in the name of “love”. Not only does she create endless
drama at home, which we’d rather not know, but almost always
end up hearing about thanks to her “networking skills”,
she gives herself the right to come to work and to state her
always unwelcome and uninvited opinion on everything, from trivial
such as letterhead font size to more important things such as
how we should run our cases! I mean, helooo! She is not even
profession and yet she gives herself the right to come and interfere
with her husband’s work just to prove to him who the real
The boss, of course, as any loyal pussy-whipped male
all the shit, always with a smile on his face, but as soon as
the bitch disappears, returns to his old self-assured- won’t
take no shit from anyone- aggressive self. I mean, ppleasseee!!
standard, putting up with such shit on regular basis is too much
of a price to pay for a pussy! Aren’t they all the same?
Why not replace her with a tamed, “humbled” pussy
as Mr Shirazi puts it and lead a peaceful and drama free life?
But nooooo, of course
he wouldn’t do such a thing! He has deliberately CHOSEN
this particular pussy because she is a dramatic, hysterical bitch
keeps him entertained. And this is exactly the point!
Mr Shirazi, although true to some extent, is not only limited to
the male species. Both males and females consciously or
unconsciously are attracted to dramatic characters and prefer partners
who keep them on their toes. And that is precisely why “nice” chicks
and lads finish last. Of course, nice people give you assurance
of their eternal availability, for better or worse till death do
part -- and not till a better booty, bigger cup size or a deeper
pocket comes along --, put up with all your shit and are peaceful,
safe and secure to hang out with. BUT nice people are predictable
And that is precisely why pussy whipped males or their
female equivalents put up with such dramatic-hysterical-can’t-breathe-without-my-permission
partners. This is not, as some might suggest, due to low self-respect
Men’s Syndrome” symptom of the “victims” but
is indeed an active CHOICE that they make because quite simply,
they ENJOY the bittersweet, cat and mouse game and this theory
regardless of gender of parties involved.
As such your concluding
remarks, namely “If you do the emotional
and mental abuse right, she'll be more attached to you and will do
pretty much whatever you say” is more or less correct and applies
to everyone, both males and females, because it meets the above criteria.
By treating him/her mean, you keep him/her on his/her toes and if
you know how to do this without overdoing it, to the point where
he/she might kick you sorry a** out of the door, you pretty much
have your partner under your spell.
To illustrate the above point,
I make a reference to a highly reliable source of information,
namely the movie “Closer”! lol!
Ok, may be mainstream commercial movies are not the most reliable
sources of information but this particular movie is an exception
as it quite subtly summarizes the core of modern relationships in
a sentence. This happens when Jude Law is leaving his “nice”,
attentive, attractive, perfect package girlfriend for another chick
and the soon to be ex-girlfriend is asking him for an explanation,
to which he simply replies “because she doesn’t need
me”! And that says it all! They all fall under your spell when
you ignore them, remind them that they can be replaced by the occasional
flirting with their best buddy and in general by treating them like
they don’t matter much.
As cynical and pessimistic as it might
sound, most modern relationships, unless based on “true love” and “trust” are
about mind games and like any game, there are always winners and
losers. Try to be on the winner side, but don’t ask me how,
as I belong to the “nice” category! Sigh... Comment