Half
equal scare
The Muslim Hejab appears as a threat to equality
and freedoms
By M. Barrett
March 5, 2004
iranian.com
I wanted to reply to Ms. Fahimi's article "What
if I wore the hejab?".
Let me identify myself first by
acknowledging that I am neither Persian/Iranian nor Muslim
so consider my remarks "with a grain of salt" as coming
from an "outsider" on
the topic & probably "unqualified" to understand
what wearing the hejab means to Islamic women in the USA and other
Western civilizations as well as in Islamic societies. I am only
an "on-looker" on the topic - a fly on the wall - a spectator
to the issue.
I do have many Persian-Iranian friends. Some live
in the IRI and some live in the USA & we have close and personal
conversations and we enjoy mutual respect of each other's
culture, religion, etc. We often ask each other those "delicate" questions
that would be regarded as politically incorrect to ask. Instead
of admonishing each other for asking the "unspeakable", we
simply respond as best we can with honest answers. That's
basically the foundation of our close relationship, to be
respectful and honest with our questions & statements.
When
I read Ms. Fahimi's article, I noted with some of my Iranian-Persian
friends that it reminds me of the type of response many people
have when they see the KKK in their white sheets. I am NOT saying
Muslim people are members of the KKK. I am acknowledging that the
response I have witnessed that many Iranian-Persian people have
to the hejab is similar to the response many American have to the
KKK -- A threat to equality and freedom.
In the USA, the
KKK is seen as an organization where one human is not equal to
another - the Caucasians are considered superior in the KKK. It
is my understanding that the KKK uses religious teachings in
their "creed". I am not saying the KKK is a religious
organization. I have never known anyone in the KKK so I cannot
speak for the organization. I understand that the KKK holds little
regard for particular ethnic groups (such as Jews, Blacks, other "brown" or
people of "color"). I understand their "holy book" is
called the "Kloran". It is also my understanding that
the KKK does not consider women to be equal to men even if the
women are Caucasian.
It is "speculated" that once
an individual "joins" the KKK organization, they can
never opt to leave the organization without suffering
a great penalty (perhaps even death). If this is all
true of the KKK, surely one can understand why many Americans "shun" the
KKK and are uncomfortable associating with someone wearing
the white sheet robes.
People may have their
own personal prejudices and most people realize they are wrong
and they try to keep them concealed and private instead of wearing
a banner to acknowledge those ideas. But it is very un-nerving
to be in close proximity to someone who embraces a doctrine
that considers women to be half equal to men, or refers
to Blacks in a derogatory term (weather that be "raisin
heads" or a "niggers") and who teach to severely
penalize members who want to leave the group (even if that
means death).
Usually the penalty of death by disassociation
is found in groups referred to as cults. I have known
people who acknowledge their ancestors "owned" Black
slaves but they always try to "sugar coat" that confession
by saying, "but my ancestors were 'good' slave masters....
they put a roof over the head of their slaves, and they gave them
a "job", and they even "allowed" them to marry
and "allowed" them to read and attend some type of slave
school - which was more than many slaves received."!! [Now
wasn't that "mighty white of 'em"!!!]
It greatly distressed
me that instead of admitting that their ancestors practiced horrible
injustices, the greatest being to consider another human life less
equal or worthy of the same freedoms they enjoyed, they would
rather defend the actions of their ancestors and to sugar-coat
their ideology than to embrace the principal of freedom and
equality for all human beings. [I wonder if they had
ever heard the saying, "those who do not learn from history
are doomed to repeat it". I sincerely hope the USA never experiences
another civil war.... hopefully we learned that horrible lesson
very well years ago.]
I really don't care what organization
one embraces, if they cannot boldly announce the teachings of that
group, even those little embarrassing issues (sex with children
or inequality among non- members, etc), then it must
not be a doctrine worth proclaiming. Children have little secret
clubs with childish rules and secret passwords. But
surely as intelligent adults we should follow a different code
to try to create a better society and world for our children.
I've
always believed that both good and bad representatives can
be found in all clubs/religions or organizations. Instead of "looking" to
the followers of a "organization" to weigh its merits,
I think it is more logical to weigh the merits based on the documented
teachings of the group. If a person is connected with
a group that doesn't regard all humans as being equal and, if one
group is less worthy to be protected than another, then being near that
person makes me wonder if eventually they will also consider my
rights as being negotiable. Even if an organization performs great
charitable acts and has a tremendous membership, if they do
not openly and vehemently teach equality and justice for all people,
then I would likewise shun such a group.
It is not that which
is presented openly that is of great concern but rather what is
concealed in secret that is so alarming. Surely this is one lesson
we can learn from the great tragedy that has taken place in the
Catholic Church today. It seems so much grief could have been spared
to the victim children and to the Church had the renegade
priests been swiftly identified and appropriately and immediately
dealt with instead of "hiding" and "turning a blind
eye" to such atrocities or simply administering a "slap
on the hand" and allowing them to continue in their capacity
and to bring harm to innocent children and soil the name of the
Church.
Right now, it seems people are a bit skeptical of
the robes of the catholic priests, and have always been skeptical
of the
white robes of the KKK and right now are skeptical of the Muslim
hejab. If the impression many people have formed regarding the
meaning or behavior associated with the people who wear these "garments"
is false, then it will have to be the teachings and behavior of
the
group members to teach the world community the real meaning of
these garments as prescribed by the "text" or "code" book
of these organizations. Perhaps if I were an Iranian-Persian individual
who had left the IRI after 1979, I too would feel uncomfortable
being in close proximity to the hejab.
Thank you for allowing me to share my "2-cents-worth"
as a spectator.
.................... Peef
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