
As an Iranian whom misfortunes of time have compelled to leave his beloved homeland behind and, as a blessing in disguise, brought to know peoples from different lands and cultures, I have often been accosted with the question – usually after the inquirer, past a couple of shots, has been warmed up enough to allow themselves to cross the so-called bounds of propriety and be not politically correct – that “do you still do arranged marriage in Iran?” and I, at first confused and then resented, would cough up a big NO! And for good reason: arranged marriage as a widespread practice is a relic of distant past in Iran, and it has been widely obsolete there for almost a century. However, through the passage of time, I have come to understand the logic behind that question: since there is an “Islamic” regime running Iran, it is expected of Iranians to stick to the very letter of the Sharia or the medieval tradition. As that is a common misconception, on this International Women’s Day I would like to attempt to rectify it as much as the inadequacy of a last-minute blog permits.
It should certainly sound ironic to most non-Iranian audiences that the Revolution of 1979 in Iran was as much the fruit of women’s active participation and bravery as that of men’s. Enraged by decades of tyranny, corruption, and dependence of the monarchic regime, the Iranian women, side by side with men, marched the streets of Tehran and other major cities to demand freedom and independence. In the process, they paid a huge price for the overthrow of the dysfunctional monarchy. As such, the Revolution benefited much from the presence of women. It was only when the hardline Islamists had entrenched themselves in the strategic positions of power that they started cracking down on all sorts of progressive trends that had nurtured the Revolution, of which the women’s movement was only one, though a very essential one, for that matter.
In the meantime, women did not stand aside passively; they did fight back. This picture, incidentally taken quite close to where my home is in Tehran, shows a passionate demonstration by women not only in protest to the trampling of their human rights but also against the dividing of the whole Iranian society into two unjust master/slave spheres by the chauvinistic Islamic Republic. Though that movement was ferociously crushed by the regime, as it happens, it never completely died. For example, throughout the more-than-three-decades of hardening of the theocratic regime in Iran, it has never been able to completely impose its strict code of dress – which is not necessarily Islamic, by the way – on women. Women’s spirited presence in the democratic uprisings of 2009 is yet another more recent instance. This shows that change, once set in motion, though it can be diverted, can never be easily and fully reversed.
However, following the unfortunate example of the Constitutional Revolution of 1905 that introduced the modern issues of law and social justice to the Iranian society for the first time, wherein women who had played an active role were later pushed back to the margins again, the Revolution of 1979 did not either usher in an era when Iranian women’s participation in the sociopolitical issues of their country would come to a full blooming. This should draw our attention to the fact that it is not only the “patent” politics that must be suspect and subjected to criticism for its antipathy to the active presence of women in society, but also the “latent” politics, i.e. issues and phenomena that are not necessarily considered political by common sense but are nevertheless political to the bone, that must be investigated and brought to light if justice is to be done for all. In the end, as long as women are not acknowledged as the equal proprietors of the society, the Iranian struggle for democracy will remain yet an unfinished revolution.

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Zendanian – An injury to one is an injury to all.
ReportThe sleep of reason produces monsters - Goya's Caprichos: #43
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StCDWenKKFw
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportOnce Edmund Burke said: "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Accordingly, I wish freedom-fighters were as active as the the antidemocratic cohorts in defending their position. However, the unfortunate truth is that the despots are usually more active than the rest of us. Let's break that pattern, fellows!
maziar 58 – Maziar
ReportGood men Do Nothing........
If You Truly Prescribe to that Believes Then some has to Salute Persian Shah for The Love of his peoples Where he said I Heared you Voice And I'm Out Of It No Blood shed is Needed.
Mehrban
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P_J. – An Iranian!
ReportIranian women have always been an integral part of, and on the forefront of all social change and revolutions in Iran, from Satar Khan/Bagher Khan times on! Iranian revolution would not have happened without their direct and indirect participation! Those who underestimate their power or influence will live to regret their poor judgments; as did the corrupt and vicious Pahlavi regime with all the murders that SAVAK agents committed in order to save their corrupt, traitor stooge. Iranian revolution not only was inspired by, but triggered by them!
What we are witnessing here is another storm of discontent gathering and turning a hurricane of hatred toward these backward thinking Akhoonds and their goons, exactly as it had happened 35 years before, with point of no return fast approaching!
I had posted this comment in another venue!
Mehrban
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Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportSuch a vibrant community! :)
iraj khan – Peace Is The Way
ReportJenabe Reza,
What happens to women who believe in Velayat Faghih and they were energized after Shah downfall.
How do they fare? Millions of them who are living under the laws of the Velayat Faghih?
What does the future hold for them?
Zendanian – An injury to one is an injury to all.
Report"What does the future hold for them?"
If anyone could make predictions, regarding the above query, the points below could realistically be some of them:
- More intensified Gender-Apartheid (as seen in the past four years by imposition of codified Gender separations in more and more public spaces).
- Institutionalized discrimination at all levels of society, school and work, not to mention family and marriage laws.
- Possibility of being stoned to death (if found guilty of "crimes" of passion) or a number of other medieval "legal retributions," available to "put women in their place."
What happened to the women that were energized by Hitler and Mussolini? They followed their leaders' lead, and we all know what happened to them, at the end, not a pretty picture.
Although they actually made a great movie about it.
"The Reader" - Trailer
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tCqSm4Phug
A more apropos query and line of inquiry might be to see:
What happens to tens of millions of Iranian women who:
- don't believe in the so called "supreme jurisprudence"
- their struggles against it
- and how to assist, aid, and augment their growing movements.
http://iranian.com/posts/view/post/10183
iraj khan – Peace Is The Way
ReportIranian Women who believe in Velayat Faghih are different from what you indicated
"What happened to the women that were energized by Hitler and Mussolini? "
That's what you say.
We are dealing with a complex of beliefs and ideologies with a religious Shia background. They will not go away as easily as Mussolini's followers.
Another Syria maybe?
Zendanian – An injury to one is an injury to all.
Report"Complex" or not, they all support a theocratic fascist state. Hitler and Mussolini's followers didn't leave the scene as "easily" as you think. After three generation you could still find remnants of them in Germany and Italy.
What's amazing is how you're focused on this utterly reactionary minority, rather than overwhelming majority of Iranian women who are opposed to IR.
The Sunni opposition in Syrian,and Saudi support for that opposition is a feature we'll definitely will not have in Iran. Most of regime's support has more to do with all that Oil monies than anything else.
As mentioned previously our focus should be on the majority of Iranian women (and people) who are opposed to IR.
Unless you're focus is really how to save IR from the oncoming social upheavals in Iran? Is it?
ghourbagheh
ReportWhat's the question? If someone (man or woman) chooses to believe in Velayate Faghih, isn't that their own problem? You can try to inform them, but don't look for some momentous change in their belief.
iraj khan – Peace Is The Way
ReportGenabe ghorbaghe,
What if they pick up arm and fight?
What's to be done then?
Another Syria?
Mehrban
ReportI am not a monarchist but a citizen of Iran and as such it is my opinion based on reality that any one without bias would agree that the condition of women had improved exponentially under the two Pahlavi kings. They were educated which they were not before, they went to universities and became part of the work force Ms. ungrateful Ebadi was a judge under the 2nd Pahlavi king. There were also much more equitable secular marriage laws, women had the right to divorce that is huge.
Mehrdad A
ReportOne should always wonder why in the throes of a 33-year old struggle against a vicious regime some still try to exhume the body of another deceased regime and execute it again.
P_J. – An Iranian!
ReportThose who do not LEARN from history are DOOMED to repeat it! That's Why!
Mehrban
ReportI don't know, are you saying it may be to divert attention from the real and present problem? Mehrdad jaan, I am so naive and I think it may just be an intellectual curiosity in the history of our country.
Mehrdad A
ReportIt certainly is a diversion, but I don't believe it is on purpose. These guys have a stronger aversion to the nebulous past than to the clear and present danger that threatens the integrity of their country today. Some of them were 2 years old at the time of the revolution. What can possibly create this much hate against a regime that they never saw, while their lifetime under this one has been plundered?
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportTrue, but the system as a whole was dysfunctional, and that was what enraged many people. Besides, people did not revolt against monarchy to install theocracy in its place. But that is what in practice happened. You must take this into consideration.
ghourbagheh
ReportAnother point of view:
The assumption is that two kings with absolute control over a nations resources did a great job of advancing women's condition in society. Fine. What would a democracy have done with control over the same nation's resources. Is it plausible that Mosadegh's government could have done even more for Women than Shah's regime?
If a dictatorship can nudge social rights by an increment, a democracy can move it along far more. I think most sane people would accept that statement. The pro-Pahlavi crowd keep beating us over the head with Shah did this or that. Well, he was an absolute monarch (the one party system is an absolute system) with his hands on the whole nation's wealth. Why can't we assume that in a democratic system, we could do even more!?
Mehrban
ReportThat is true, the system may have become dis-functional, we can talk about that too. But to say that you hav eto be a closet Monarchist to see the more than obvious progress of women under pahlavi is best biased and a distortion of reality. My grandmother had gone to school during the Pahlavi regime, my mother went to university and taught in Iran a number of my female relatives were professors in the universities. How can we ignore these facts?!
faraway
ReportWhat was literacy rate for women during the ghajar period and before the Pahlavi dynasty took over?
Mehrban
ReportI don't know Farawy jaan, what I know is that there were no female doctors, engineers, athletes, etc.etc before the Pahlavis. For what it is worth there were no universities in Iran. Tehran university was founded at the time of Reza Shah.
faraway
ReportSometimes I get the impression that our younger generation and some of the non-Iranians think that Iran was a paradise on earth and the Pahlavi single-handedly destroyed all the "democratic and progressive policies" of Ghajaras...Historical context are thrown out the door when discussing the past.
As you said, only a partisan ideologue can remain impervious to facts using all sort of demagogic half-truths.
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportHear is your mistake: the Pahlavis did not singlehandedly destroy the heaven that was before them. Rather, they stalled the progress of democracy that had started before them. That is what they did, my friend. Try to make the distinction.
Siavash
Report"they stalled the progress of democracy that had started before them" Reza Pa....
Mr. Reza P.
Seems you are way off the track.
Do you know democracy have some pre-requisites?
For example, education is one of the most important pre-requisites for democracy.
At the turning of century, during Qajar era, the rate of illetracy was 99%.according to Dr.Shoja e din Shafa.
That means only 1% of our population could read or write. Forget college degree, just "reading and writing".
Now, tell me I am uneducated person during Qajar tiem and I want to vote to Reza P. as my representative in Majlis. How can I do that? I can't write.
So your best answer would be : to ask someone to write Reza P name for me on the ballot.
That is NOT democracy.
In that suggested scenario, I will give all power to someone else to make decision for me. That is NOT democracy.
I only mentioned one pre-requisite of democracy.
Now, I want you to go ahead and do some researh about other pre-requisites of democracy.
Cheers.
Siavash
faraway
ReportRP: Do you always get condescending when people don't fully agree with you? Why do you think you can order people in such a pompous way what to do or what not to do? This is not your first time either. You took this petulant tone with me in dismissing my point of view on an entirely different subject matter (Japanese Anime). You are an enigma. You can be servile with those who agree with you and dogmatic and arrogant with those who disagree with you entirely.
You will learn your lesson soon that being arrogant does not work in America and will not add to your credibility as a wannabe political pundit or in your personal life. Good luck!
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportCorrecting a mis-attribution does not constitute condescension. You seemed to be a rational soul. I am sorry you see it that way, my friend.
faraway
ReportYour comprehension leaves much to be desired...The so-called mis-attribution has nothing to do with your conceit. Your tone is rude and obnoxious not the content. Maybe it's the language barrier, I don't know but it's very unsettling to discuss things with you even anime when you out of the blue say "suit yourself"...anyhow, It's good for to converse when I feel offended. I'll be quite now my friend. We'll talk later.
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportWell, suit yourself, again. I have no idea why it should be rude. Say that to me, and I won't be upset. After all, you would be telling me that it is my own business to do or not to do, to agree or not to agree. Why I should be upset I really have no idea.
faraway
ReportNo worries....Take care!
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
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amirparvizforsecularmonarchy – One of the most humorous things in the world; is the notion that Americans are a greater force for good & more civilized than Nazi's, Mullahs and Communists.
Report"Enraged by decades of tyranny, corruption, and dependence of the monarchic regime."
Let's Assume that this statement is correct, lets even assume that it is based on a scientific study by speaking with a precise cross section of the people who participated in the 1979 and the scientific study found that people were out in the streets because they were absolutely enraged by 1) decades of tyranny, 2) Decades of corruption, and 3) decades of dependence of the monarchic regime.
Does this not go to show that the revolution actually followed the path of anti-intellectuals and extremists and this is the explanation for why the fruits that all Iranians can see today with their own eyes and taste as a result of 1979 are so rotten and so bitter???????
Isn't this a great shame and massive waste, deeply saddening and very troubling that "Iranians followed the Voice of Stupidity, of Ignorance, of Selfishness and of Betrayal against both King and Country? It is No Surprise to an intellectual why Iranians are today paying such a comparatively heavy price for listening to such repugnant and detrimental voices and even acting on them with conviction. Had Iranians followed the voice of wisdom, the voice of reason, the voice of courage, the voice of honesty i.e. grasping what Iranian Intellectuals were saying in contrast to what anti-intellectuals were saying and therefore not participated in the 1979 revolution, but fully opposed it, most Iranians rightly know they would have not paid such a severe price and their lives would be so much better today.
So lets reflect on why people who participated in 1979, were following anti-intellectual thoughts, if in fact they were holding views and beliefs that they were rebelling against 1) decades of tyranny 2) decades of corruption 3) decades of dependence on monarchic system?
Ever notice how every leader, from every resource rich countries which are undeveloped from chavez, to assad & gadhafi, are corrupt and tyrannical, but every leader of every country that requires those resources and is in contrast developed like the USA/UK/France are all clean as a whistle and never tyrannical. The reason I put it this way is because whether you know it or not, there is a connection here that most people can not make. The most corrupt nations on earth are those that are starting wars of choice and killing people for profit and to plunder greater wealth. Ironic that the USA, UK, and France are not on the front of most peoples minds for corruption. In the USA, UK, France those people who expose crimes to expose the military sales /murder for wealth corruption of the world like Julian Assange are the ones pursued. not those who commit the crimes. The International Institutions which financially back the worlds greatest corruption were recently caught for fixing libor interest rates over 20 years, whats worse everyone in the know knew it and it was criminal and people have been charged, but do you think the people who lost over 50 Trillion US Dollars at the hands of these criminals will ever get justice or reimbursement? In societies so corrupt where banks are too big to fail, of course they are going to be too big to face justice too. For all the good the late shahs team was doing for Iran for helping create the largest middle class growth in the world, corruption in comparison to the military base corrupt empire of the west which has invaded many countries in the middle east and done what ever they wanted is not the thought of an intellectual but an anti-intellectual. The shahs Iran was one of the least corrupt nations on earth in reality and corruption was taken so seriously that Iran had a higher percentage of its wealth going to fund institutions to pursue and investigate corruption that it was under better control than most places. It was the lack of corruption and focusing on the people that helped our namaknashnas anti-intellectuals lives improve far beyond their minds and their thoughts. The Best description an Intellectual can provide to explain 1979 is explaining the known facts of how tyrannies like the IRI come about. First people have to have freedom, like they did, second they have to use their freedom with out responsibility, for example pursuing anti-intellectual thoughts. (Note to those with a sense of fun and humor, Another Anti-Intellectual belief and view on the same line which would have produced a similar result would have been to just say "the late shah was the devil and had four horns and three balls," but at least with this claim, you might also make someone somewhere laugh for a moment).
Why not Listen to The Voice of Intellectuals Today and Learn form the Mistakes of the Past? Is admitting that one was wrong and seeking to find the various faces of the truth instead such a bad thing? If it is tough for one person to grow their mind from Ignorance to Wisdom (by following Intellectual thought), Imagine how tough it must be for an entire Nation which acted Irresponsibly to lose the freedoms that they had (by following anti-intellectual thought) and replace their freedom with the hardships/tyranny they now suffer from. I sincerely wish that this explanation after some time makes sense and sinks in, What we can depend on is for the Western Powers to demonize our own great culture and honest leaders as corrupt, despotic, tyrannical etc and help manufacture thoughts accepted by anti-intellectuals. Because the West has the institutions, management, organization and development to conceal their own daylight corrupt & tyrannical actions and they have a need to control certain countries resources. The west fully expected the late shah to do as he was told in opposition to the needs of the people of Iran, he would not give up basic Iranian rights to freedom and development and he was removed for this reason by anti-intellectual thought which originates in the west and has the purpose of concealing their own blatant corruption and tyranny.
faraway
ReportIs this you??
http://www.slideshare.net/rezaparchizadeh
Why did you leave Iran?? Aren't you afraid of using your real name if the regime is after you?
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportYes, this is me. But what am I doing here?! I have no fear, my dear. Let our monarchist friends fear for their lives! I suggest you read this: http://radiokoocheh.com/article/120646
faraway
ReportWow, you are poet too. It's great.
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportGoogle my name in English, and you'll find more.
amirparvizforsecularmonarchy – One of the most humorous things in the world; is the notion that Americans are a greater force for good & more civilized than Nazi's, Mullahs and Communists.
ReportWhy not go to a country like France or the USA, why live in a Monarchy when you opposed Monarchies?
Surely you don't want Iran to become like Japan, the UK, Holland or Sweden. Aren't USA/France more to your liking?
Reza Parchizadeh – Author & Activist
ReportCalm down, dude. I already am in the US. Please study my profile before going through all that again.
amirparvizforsecularmonarchy – One of the most humorous things in the world; is the notion that Americans are a greater force for good & more civilized than Nazi's, Mullahs and Communists.
ReportCharming, you are living in the Most Corrupt Military Based Empire in the human History, a country which funded khomeini to the tune of hundreds of millions to help pay the PLO to train basiji's to kill Iran's democratic elements and impose extremism on Iranians. And then you critic the shahs Iran as Corrupt? The Hypocrisy of your views and actions would make for an excellent career in `journalism in the USA not to mention the USA Military based empire has a need for a Mind like your in its Education and Policy centers.
ghourbagheh
ReportC'mon Amir khan,
This is a childish argument. Where one stays has nothing to do with what one believes. How many times in history has that happened? Reza Pahlavi leaves in "the Most Corrupt Military Based Empire". Does that make him a hypocrite? Or is it that he has safe haven from his father's puppet masters?
amirparvizforsecularmonarchy – One of the most humorous things in the world; is the notion that Americans are a greater force for good & more civilized than Nazi's, Mullahs and Communists.
ReportIn response to you views. http://iranian.com/posts/view/post/10240