Friends:
I’m currently going through a divorce from an Iranian (IRI national, native and brought up there). I know I’m probably not the first person to have this challenging experience.
I’m happy that I get a second chance at life. And I’m even more happy that I have become who I am today. I think I am going to be a far better partner in the future, because of my experiences. I am not averse to love or to women. I just had an empty but faithful marriage, which has left me hungry to share a real connection with someone. I especially want to share my life with an Iranian woman who can share my culture. But I prefer someone with a Western mentality, like me.
Question: Do Iranian women think men like me are lakeh dar? Or do Iranian women appreciate constructive experience, no matter the shape? I know both kinds exist… but I’m curious to see what readers like you think.
Question 2: Since I am so Americanized, I have an especial concern that my Iranian culture will be too diluted in the future. This explains my desire to have an Iranian partner, to reinforce this part of my identity. Do any of you find this concern to be misplaced or unneeded?
I would love to read about any thoughts that cross your mind, regarding my experience or your own.
