 Hang in there
Why should
you surrender to the notion that your heart will "break
a thousand times"?
By Kourosh Saghafi
May 3, 2004
iranian.com unedited
In reply to "Damn
you!": Dear Mitra,
It was a very well-written piece filled with traces
of your emotions and feelings towards the love of your
life. however, to this point i am not sure and can't
really tell whether it was based on what had actually
happened to you in real life or was it just the
product of wonderfully-talented mind of a brilliant
author. In any case. congratulations on your seemingly
hard-gained victory in this battle, or is it a victory
yet to be gained?
i am not sure how old you are, but
if 25 is the magic number, then i guess that justifies
and explains how you surrendered so fast. i am sure
you fought very hard through it, you missed him, spent
those long and cold nights listening to "age ye rooz" and remebering
him, but for all the love that you had for this gentleman do you think your
being fair to yourself, and i want you to think about this carefully, to
just put down
the weapons and thank him endlessly for what he has brought in to your life?
don't you think your love for him deserves an all-out war, instead of fighting
tiny and mind-consuming battles here and
there?
I am sorry but you will never
going to find a passionate love like that (as passionate as you claim
your love was for him) no matter what your family or closest friends
want you to believe.
it is just something that will not realistically happen. and why should
you surrender to the notion that your
heart will "break a thousand times" and "maybe this is
how it is supposed to be" and if so, why falling in love in the
first place?
I do believe in
Kismat and faith, but i also believe in giving it your more than best.
I know a lot of iranian men and women disagree with me(don't worry.
i have plenty of
space for each and every one of your emails:) and go to the farthest
logical and illogical! extent to make it look not worth fighting
for and MOVING ON, but
come on, do you seriously think they mean what they say? if you delve
into most lives and people with such lifestyles and beliefs, what
kind of truth do you
think will come out? isn't it a real fact in most cases, if not all
that facing the past is such a dreaded concept that makes people
run for the future and embrace
it, even though the future might give them a raw deal?
I'd encourage
everyone who reads this to please just take a moment and reflect
upon that. When it comes
to relationships, unless we are caught in a cycle of violence and
abuse, Our displeasure with our choice of partner in life and our
huge
excitment into MOVING
ON explore furhter options, is indicative of lack of a deep and careful
analysis of our feelings. Hang in there girl. fight tooth and
nail if we have to. don't
listen to no one but your heart's voice and let that be your guiding
light in your love life.
Good luck.
Hang in there. fight tooth and nail for him if you have to
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