How to punish your brazen wife

Mohsen Qara'ati explains


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by Arj on

Actually this punishment is for women who have not even yet been proven to be disobedient! As it indicates clrearly: "As for those from whom ye fear rebellion..." the woman who's the tareget of the punishment, does not have to be guilty of disloyalty or rebellion. The mere suspition or fear of the man is enough to qualify the woman for a good beating!

maziar 58


by maziar 58 on

the time has changed drasticaly.

none of those out dated manuals applies to the SHEER ZAN-E IRANI

under 2011 internatinal code : If a man can run fast enough so the throwing object misses and hits bystander NO ONE can be held accountable.

goor babaye gharaati -o- mohadethesh.


Masoud Kazemzadeh

hadith and Iran's legal code are faaaaaar more severe

by Masoud Kazemzadeh on

The Qoran tells men to beat the wife if she is disobedient. The details are provided in hadith as well as for the Shiites by the marja taghlid.

In Iran’s legal codes, a man has the right to beat up his wife. The limit is not to inflict "naghs ozv" which means causing permanent harm such as breaking a bone.

This dude is actually providing an extremely mild interpretation of what the Qoran, hadith, marajeh, and Iran’s legal codes state.


Masoud Kazemzadeh

The Holy Qoran, 4: 34

by Masoud Kazemzadeh on

The Holy Qoran, Surah Nesa, verse 34



YUSUFALI: Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all).

PICKTHAL: Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High, Exalted, Great.

SHAKIR: Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great.


Mort Gilani


by Mort Gilani on

Abiding by this guy’s methodology f*cks up any marriage faster than one can say “Ya Ali.”


اگه مسواک نبود


میتونم با شوشولم بزنم 


ای خاک علم بر سرت  


Faramarz, honey

by Rea on

I don't know what he says in the video.

But, by comparison to the pope going around in Spain scaring the s/hit out of the so called believers, the one in the video looks "holy joly".

Viagra provided, wouldn't say no to sigheh holy joly. He looks kinky. ;o)


Rea, Here is What He Said

by Faramarz on

The Mullah said that your ex is being punished every day by not seeing your smiling face and not having the great home-made French food that you make all the time and the other things that I cannot repeat!


Did he say anything about punishing my ex ?

by Rea on

Apart from emptying his pockets, can I also hit him on the head ? With a last year fireplace chunk. So he remembers me. 



by comments on

SK: I don't think we should expect those women (Gharaati's audiences) stand up.  They are unbelievably opportunistic and definitely not ordinary Iranian women.  Please don't address these types of women with some innocents who go to a mosque to pray with good deed.  These women know exactly what they are doing and spending their time on.  I don't think that any Iranian men could raise their hand or words on these women.  The women who are beaten to death are ordinary women. I think Yolanda brought up a good subject.  Some took notes because this is probably a kind of requirement for a course or something relevant.   


It because of this coercion, that In France it is unlawful to

by amirparvizforsecularmonarchy on

wear a hejab at all.

In fact the fies for men imposing and forcing women to wear hejab is even tougher than for the women that wear it.

So in france having the freedom to make your own choce has been removed due to speeches like this.

The world is learning from Reza Shah.  God Bless Him.  Javid Shah!

Esfand Aashena

The women are actually smiling & brazeningly saying DREAM ON!

by Esfand Aashena on

Joking aside my uncle was abusive and sometimes I remember his children would go and give him some bad news while he was brushing his teeth and he'd get mad and beat them with the toothbrush!  I mean hit hard on the head and on the lips!

Other times he'd use the fly swater and unload!   

Everything is sacred


I Hear You Esfand Jaan!

by Faramarz on

These Mullahs are actually very knowledgeable and advanced. I mean, look at his white beard (rish sefid!)

Esfand Aashena

Yes Faramarz you should ask an Agha if Islam allows sex toys!

by Esfand Aashena on

This is actually a good time because of the religious breeze going on at the Tehran metro stations! 

Everything is sacred


Kinky Mullah!

by Faramarz on

When I hear "punish" the wife with an electric toothbrush and a pencil eraser, my mind wanders!

In women circles, it is referred to as "multiple punishment!"

Anahid Hojjati

Busy with ...

by Anahid Hojjati on

It was funny this morning. There is this project that we have to do at home and my daughter took over, and I told her that Maybe it is better if I do it and she said:"that is ok, you are busy with your poetry" :).

Tiger Lily


by Tiger Lily on

some of them might be doodling dirty cartoons. How are we to know?



TigerLily, boro, boro, go cause trouble elsewhere.  

Anahid Hojjati

Soosan Khanoom, asoodeh bekhab

by Anahid Hojjati on

ke man beedaram.



by Shepesh on


Soosan Khanoom

Women on this site???

by Soosan Khanoom on

haha .... do not make me laugh ... for tons of men who are posting daily at least on this site, there are only hand full of women who just posts their one liners .......

Let us face it ... Iranian women are too busy cooking and cleaning they don't have time left to spend on the internet beating the hell of men's butt with their no sense comments...




Tiger Lily

come hit me virtually too, but make it hadithy softly

by Tiger Lily on

SK sista is right in the matter of condoning and  perpetuating by attending such meetings. It's a form of aiding and abetting. 

However, sista SK, with many of these situations it could be that they get a free khoresht after the meeting....


I have to go and meet my own set of nutters now for free nibbles. ;) I'm taking a toothbrush with me and by George I can be mean with that instrument! ;)

hamsade ghadimi

نیلوفر خانوم

hamsade ghadimi

نیلوفر خانوم کفرش دراومد.  تقصیر خودشه... (طبق منطق خودش). :)

Jeesh Daram


by Jeesh Daram on


Jeesh Daram

از دسته مسواک استفاده فرمائید

Jeesh Daram

"النساء و السادات کم اشیاء المنقول و غیر منقول."  حضرت امام واجب (ع) فرمود "بر هر مردی صواب است که همواره دو چیز در جیب داشته باشد.  اول، پاشنه کش و یا آچار پیچ گوشتی است که برای دفاع از ناموسش بکار میبرد و دوم مسواک دست دوم که برای تنبیه همسر متمردش است".  عوام پرسیدند "یا امام، اگر مسواک گیر نیامد چه کنیم؟" امام فرمودند " جایز است از شانه سر و یا دسته جارو و  یا دسته بیل و یا دسته هاون برای تنبیه زن ناسازگار استفاده نمائید، که این خود اجرش برابر ده رکعت نماز است و یا مساوی با یک زیارت امامزاده داود.  ولی زنهار که جای آن کبود نشود و خون نیاید و اثری باقی نماند و به زجر دادن تدریجی زن بسنده کنید.  چرا؟ امام اضافه فرمودند: "چون در اثر جراحت آشکار، آنوقت فامیل و خانواده زن شرور ممکن است بیایند و توپز توی ماتحت شوهر کنند و حالا خر بیارو باقالی بار کن"   پس نتیجه اخلاقی آنستکه حتی الامکان اثری از جرم باقی نگذارید" ...................... از خاطرات اصغر عاجزکش که ته خیابان عین الدوله کارش شرارت بود اذیت و آزار مردم و بعد از شهریور بیست معلوم شد که رفت و آمد افراد را بخانه کسروی و صادق هدایت کنترل میکرده و هرروز سر ساعت معین به سفارت انگلیس اطلاع میداده است. شایع است که با آتاشه فرهنگی انگلستان در ایران نیز روابط جنسی خشنی داشته است.  نقل از آرشیو اسناد کشف شده در سفارت سابق آمریکا در ایران



by Truthseeker9 on

You dont' care so much that you decided to address two women using capital letters (shouting).  Lets just say I am glad there are more women on this site I can relate to. You are so deluded.


2 Sides to the Story

by BoosBoos on

There are 2 sets of extremists: (1) The religious extremist types that want to force all women to wear the head scarves etc.; and (2) The feminists that think they speak on behalf of all women and argue that the right to act as a self-centered child and spoon feed all women propaganda is a good thing.  We know what the religious extremism is like - I won't discuss it because it already gets a lot of media attention.  However, what often doesn't get talked about is the Western extremism: The one where young girls are *free* to become drunks, drug addicts, strip club sex workers, financial exploiters of men, and have had 5 or 6 abortions from several different men by the time they are 30.  Increasingly in the news we see women that grow up under this type of *freedom* being neglectful of their children often emotionally abusive and self-centered; and sometimes physically abusive towards their families and children.  

It would be useful for Iranian men to write a blog as to the reasons they got divorced - I wonder if the ultra-feminists could handle the truth.  

Red Wine


by Red Wine on

بعضی‌ از دوستان دیر به مهمانی رسیده اند !!! این مطالبی‌ که این شیخَک گوید تازه‌گی ندارد و رابطه مستقیمی‌ نیز با دین اسلام ندارد (می‌ خواهیم بگوییم که این موارد از قبل از آمدنِ اسلام بوده است تا به حال،تشریف ببرید به سرزمینهایِ  عربی‌ِ  کنارهٔ خلیجِ  پارس،خواهید دید که حاکمان و رَجلان آن مناطق چطور این قوانین را به سادگی‌ به اجرا می‌‌گذارند) و بلکه اینها قِسمی بوده از قوانینِ  حاکم بر آن زمانْ در سرزمینِ  حِجاز .

 این همه پرستشِ  دینِ  اِبراهیمی.. بی‌ آنکه چیزی از آن دانی‌،این بسیار دَرد آور است.


The irony...

by Arj on that in a sureh named after women, god's chief addressees are men! Why wouldn't god address women directly to show them the right path instead of telling men to beat women who are suspected to be disobedient (note that it's based solely on suspicion, which gives men arbitrary power as a judge in addition to persecutor!)?

The answer is quite simple; it's a book written by men convaying messages of a male god, addressing his male followers, with exeptions here and there of occasionally alluding to "Amenat" as secondary beings!

P.S. Back when Koran was written, there were no pencils or toothbrushes invented! 



by yolanda on

Wow! I saw several guys taking notes or having notebook & pen!

......Must be some kind of elaborate instructions that they have to refer to the notes later!


Soosan Khanoom

TS and HG

by Soosan Khanoom on

YOU TWO  are NOT getting it otherwise you would NOT even bring up such a comparison ..... or you know exactly and you love to bring it up .. . Either way  YOU TWO ARE SO WRONG 

Of course in rape ONLY and ONLY men are to be blamed and to be punished. IN a party, in a date, in a marriage , on the street, under any condition men have no right to rape women, DO YOU GET IT. AM I LOUD ENOUGH ? 

BUT if you have women sitting in the crowd and taking notes while a guy is teaching to the crowd how to rape a woman in various settings THEN those women are no less criminal of those men who are doing it if the women do not say anything or do not at least storm out of such a settings......  

Now these women are sitting here and taking notes and smiling when the guy is teaching men what to do like how men are responsible to tell women what to wear ...... THESE WOMEN ASRE DUMB .... ARE PASSIVE... something that men of the society have been enjoying for along time .... ENOUGH is ENOUGH Women should stand up fo rtheir rights cause MEN ARE CRIMINALS and they have been and they will be .... MEN are not going to give women any of their rights and if women keep waiting for men to do something then they will stay in this shit forever .....

TS we had this discussion before and I am not going to waste a second more of my time on it again ....

Either you get it or not ... I care less