From when I had just learned to read and write, I used to write poetry. Granted, after I came to United States, for more than 20 years, I never wrote a poem. But I was always interested in writing. In "ensha" class, I always got great grades. Growing up, I never fixed a TV or radio. I just watched too much TV. So how is it that I am an Electrical Engineer? For high school, I chose "Riazi and Physics", that was a given. My grades in math and science were good, actually they were excellent, I was trying to be modest. Even though I loved literature but there was no way I would go to that field of study in high school, since mostly students with not so good grades went to that field. And then I decided somewhere along the way that even though I really loved writing, but I would have a technical career and just do writing as a hobby.
Later when I started studying in United States, it was easy to decide. It was when dollar in Iran was in black market and as an immigrant; you would have to choose a career that enabled you to get a job easier. Medical field was out of question. I physically get sick when I see injured people or people who are gravely sick. So I chose Engineering. But then why Electrical Engineering? I was interested in Chemical Engineering because my dad taught Chemistry and I liked the subject but then there was no Chemical Engineering degree offered in our university. Therefore, Electrical Engineering seemed a good choice especially since it was 1980s and Electrical Engineering was a vibrant field. I am not sorry about the field of study that I chose and like the fact that I get to trouble shoot the systems which is what I like. I am not interested in small components at the board level but trouble shooting systems appeals to me. I even extend it to people from time to time.
Our kids who were born in Diaspora have more choices. In majority of cases, they are not under financial pressure that we faced in late 70s, and 80s. Also their better English skills, or another language depending on where they live, enable them to have better chance in a wider variety of fields. That is why nowadays, I hear my friends tell me that their kid is studying engineering but his love is music and that is what he/she will probably do. Or we have more Iranians who are actors, comedians, writers. I even have some friends who are in their twenties and are writers. Sure, many of them have other jobs too but they get to spend much more time on their writing when they are still young. I would like to know how you came up with your career? Is there some interesting story behind it?
My guess is that for most people, especially those in their mid forties and above, the stories tend to be similar. They were immigrants, so they decided to become doctors/engineers because there was more money in that. I am interested in all stories especially the cases when there was a calling. For instance, the person used to style others' hair from when they were not even 10 and that is why they became a hair stylist. Or they always dreamed about being a doctor or sadly lost a loved one in an early age and that was their impetus for becoming a doctor. Will you please share with us, how you chose your career or was that your career that chose you?
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Dear Rea, thanks for your answer
by Anahid Hojjati on Tue Nov 23, 2010 06:06 AM PSTDear Rea, indeed in life, many things like career, choice of partner, where you live, etc. are not 100% based on choice. Many times, they just happen and that is fine too. If I remember correctly, Sidhartha's book by Herman Hess has some excellent passages that touch on this.
Anyway, if everything else fails
by Rea on Tue Nov 23, 2010 06:03 AM PSTOne can always go into translations and tour guiding. I did.
So, make sure your children speak all the languages you carry in your baggage.
Didn't choose anything at all
by Rea on Tue Nov 23, 2010 05:53 AM PSTJust happened.
PS. we're not all software engineers.
Thanks Dear VPK and Niloufar jan for your answers
by Anahid Hojjati on Tue Nov 23, 2010 05:39 AM PSTThanks for reading the blog and commenting. VPK's answer brings up so many important issues. I cracked up where he wrote about disaster happening. Indeeed 1979 revolution was a disaster for many people's careers. Other significant issues brought up by VPK's answer are how academia would limit his choice of living and how he did not want to participate in weapon's research. But even as an engineer, you end up sometimes participating in projects that are less than desired. I consider myelf lucky that most of my engineering profession (almost all) has been on commercial projects but once I did work on a project for a short time that some people might be uncomfortable with who the customer was.
Niloufar, you wrote that it is important for kids to determine their own future. However, I give advice to my daughter about her university studies since I believe my eduction, work experience and life experience can help her in choosing a career. She will be the ultimate decider but I have to be honest that I do give her much input regarding her career.
hi vpk
by Niloufar Parsi on Tue Nov 23, 2010 02:32 AM PSTyeah took a little break to recharge the batteries :)
I was
by Veiled Prophet of Khorasan on Tue Nov 23, 2010 02:23 AM PSTgoing to be a Physicist and go back home to teach as a professor. Got in all the right American universities. Picked a fine top notch place and was doing my thing. Then disaster came I mean the revolution happened.
For a number of years I still kept going at physics and got pretty far. However I realized I did not want an academic life in America. I did not like the cut throat politics of academia. Nor did I want the limited choices of where to live. It is very hard finding positions in theoretical physics. so I went into industry using my engineering skills. More money; but more importantly freedom. As a physics professor my options were limited to a few universities or a national lab and get involved in weapons research: something I would not do. In fact I promised my American adviser never to participate in weapons building. So that left me one obvious choice: engineering. Not the best option but not the worst.
PS,
Hi NP, were you away for a while? Welcome back!
anahid
by Niloufar Parsi on Tue Nov 23, 2010 01:56 AM PSTgood question and blog. after family, the most important thing in life is being happy in one's profession, in my view.
it's true how so so many iranian exiles chose their careers on class considerations alone. i almost fell in the same trap but somehow managed to save the situation.
i won't force my kids to go either route. it would be a shame to take away their chance to determine their own futures. the only thing i will insist on is that they really like what they go for.